Weight Loss and Depression

Hi Wave tone1 it’s been a while since I posted but I thought I would post now since I need your help and support.

I’ve been fed up with my weight and I wanted to make a change. So on the 28th of March I started this coaching with a woman call Liv from LivWell. Everything is great, you can eat the things you love and she concentrates on Cals, Fat, Carbs & Protein. I felt like this was a great fit for me (being autistic), but today I was speaking to my mum and brother and even though they are supporting me they are also worried and told me to be careful.

With LivWell you sign up on the website, answer all these questions. You then speak to a member of the team to understand everything etc.
You pay £30 fee to start as well as £120 for a month. I thought this was a great deal, but after speaking with my mum and brother (who has done something similar) I now have doubts…

I can’t cancel my subscription until I have done 4 months (it says in the contract), so I’m stuck with them for another 3 months. But just working out the ingredients I bought and a protein powder I bought, I have already spent £222.04 SobSob.

All I want to do is lose weight so bad SobSob and even though Liv is understanding and she has chosen foods that I would like, I just feel depressed right now. I was fine when I started but now I feel like I will have no money to get ingredients for some of the meals SobSob.

I just don’t know what to do anymore, I love food but I also don’t want to spend a fortune. But I just don’t understand how to lose weight it’s just confusing to my autistic brain especially when it comes to cooking. I’m 30 for christs sake and I can’t do the simpler adult things SobSob x

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  • I sometimes (free) download healthy recipes (as PDFs) from the BBC Food website - I then have the recipe ingredients and quantities required to refer to on my smartphone in the supermarket and I can remind myself in the kitchen of what recipe step cones next in the process of making a dish.

    Another reasonably priced way to learn, at your own pace, about cookery is to borrow a range of books from your local Library.  In case travel is a barrier; it is worth knowing that many of the recipe books at Libraries are now also available as eBooks via an app connected to your Library.  I hadn't realised that until recently - and I have found that more cost effective than physically travelling to our Library.

    If I am going grocery shopping at a Town supermarket; I sometimes also check the book section of local charity shops for (now more affordable) hardback cookery books with step-by-step pictures - not just pages and pages of written instructions.  I found a "Good Housekeeping" large, reasonably priced cookery book in a charity shop (where you money is doing some good too).

    One of the best kitchen items I bought to help with simple, nutritious, healthy, budget-friendly meals was a small litres-sized electric slow cooker.  They are energy efficient too - often not that different to running a lightbulb.  Not so much "cookery" as "assemble and chop ingredients", put it in, switch it on, come back later.

    You e.g. chop up plenty of different vegetables / chicken legs etc., weigh out some dried lentils, add tinned chopped tomatoes, sufficient water, maybe some dried mixed herbs and a stock cube and switch it on for the number of hours in the machine's guidance booklet ...and later on enjoy your meal.

    I regularly use my slow cooker to make e.g. soups, stews, curries, lentil or yellow split pea dal, chill con carne (or vegetarian chilli), beef mince or red lentil Bolognese sauce to serve with pasta, etc.

    Robert Dyas (£10) or Argos (£15) often have a small sized, reasonably priced, slow cooker.  Our Salvation Army charity shop will also sometimes has a good condition and electrically inspected slow cooker for sale.

    Sometimes I make a double quantity of an easy recipe I like and then divide the extra portions into useful amounts and freeze ahead for use another week.  Even better if the main vegetables in the recipe are in season at the moment - better quality, lower price, plus eating what is good that month naturally helps to bring a variety of nutrients to your diet.

    I tend to put single or two-person portions in the freezer.  Many recipes using a slow cooker work well as freeze ahead meals (as long as the meat ingredient has not previously been frozen before - you can check the package to see if it has the snowflake symbol suggesting it is suitable to freeze at home).

    I am a fan of a main meal plan for the week ahead (not every meal and snack, just your biggest meal of the day).  That way I can work out e.g. first portion of vegetable and tomato curry served with freshly cooked brown rice on one day, followed by the other portion two days later (plan once, shop once, cook 4 portions at the sane time, wash up once, eat two portions in that same week, put two portions in the freezer for an easy meal in two future weeks).

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  • I sometimes (free) download healthy recipes (as PDFs) from the BBC Food website - I then have the recipe ingredients and quantities required to refer to on my smartphone in the supermarket and I can remind myself in the kitchen of what recipe step cones next in the process of making a dish.

    Another reasonably priced way to learn, at your own pace, about cookery is to borrow a range of books from your local Library.  In case travel is a barrier; it is worth knowing that many of the recipe books at Libraries are now also available as eBooks via an app connected to your Library.  I hadn't realised that until recently - and I have found that more cost effective than physically travelling to our Library.

    If I am going grocery shopping at a Town supermarket; I sometimes also check the book section of local charity shops for (now more affordable) hardback cookery books with step-by-step pictures - not just pages and pages of written instructions.  I found a "Good Housekeeping" large, reasonably priced cookery book in a charity shop (where you money is doing some good too).

    One of the best kitchen items I bought to help with simple, nutritious, healthy, budget-friendly meals was a small litres-sized electric slow cooker.  They are energy efficient too - often not that different to running a lightbulb.  Not so much "cookery" as "assemble and chop ingredients", put it in, switch it on, come back later.

    You e.g. chop up plenty of different vegetables / chicken legs etc., weigh out some dried lentils, add tinned chopped tomatoes, sufficient water, maybe some dried mixed herbs and a stock cube and switch it on for the number of hours in the machine's guidance booklet ...and later on enjoy your meal.

    I regularly use my slow cooker to make e.g. soups, stews, curries, lentil or yellow split pea dal, chill con carne (or vegetarian chilli), beef mince or red lentil Bolognese sauce to serve with pasta, etc.

    Robert Dyas (£10) or Argos (£15) often have a small sized, reasonably priced, slow cooker.  Our Salvation Army charity shop will also sometimes has a good condition and electrically inspected slow cooker for sale.

    Sometimes I make a double quantity of an easy recipe I like and then divide the extra portions into useful amounts and freeze ahead for use another week.  Even better if the main vegetables in the recipe are in season at the moment - better quality, lower price, plus eating what is good that month naturally helps to bring a variety of nutrients to your diet.

    I tend to put single or two-person portions in the freezer.  Many recipes using a slow cooker work well as freeze ahead meals (as long as the meat ingredient has not previously been frozen before - you can check the package to see if it has the snowflake symbol suggesting it is suitable to freeze at home).

    I am a fan of a main meal plan for the week ahead (not every meal and snack, just your biggest meal of the day).  That way I can work out e.g. first portion of vegetable and tomato curry served with freshly cooked brown rice on one day, followed by the other portion two days later (plan once, shop once, cook 4 portions at the sane time, wash up once, eat two portions in that same week, put two portions in the freezer for an easy meal in two future weeks).

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