Published on 12, July, 2020
I used to not say anything because I hate confrontation but as I’ve gotten older it’s stronger and I feel I need to do something about it. So I end up doing or saying things more so which I feel is right and justified in the moment but then I can’t cope with the backlash and I end up second guessing myself and having major panics that the other person will do something awful to me as a result.
I always handle things the wrong way.
TheMaskedPro said:as I’ve gotten older it’s stronger and I feel I need to do something about it.
I'm probably the opposite - I've learned that sticking your head above the trench wall is a sure way to get it shot at.
NTs don't have our sense of justice and trying to get this across is a recipe for disaster in my experience.
Just live and let live - less friction = less stress and more energy for enjoying life.
I really like that about the trenches! Thank you. Think I might go back to avoiding as me trying to fix things never works and makes everything worse ️