Games and reffereing

Ok so im still not diagnoised but think i have asd 

And who else finds if theyre playing a game like dnd or monopoly whete you are thhe banker or dm you feel the need to use the rules as written and not as inteneded 

As an example 

As am extra action you may attack an enemy in range

To me this is youve takeb your action and bonus action but you get an extra action

As intended its a bonus action but i like to read what is there and go word for word and not read between thr lines

Or free parking is a rest space i will not use the house rules for it 

Another thing is if a videi game allows me to edit the costumes i keep them as is instead it feels wrong to give hilk hogan a white jacket or whatever