Published on 12, July, 2020
I'm sure I'm asexual and aromantic, after numerous attempts at dating apps I quickly lose heart and delete my profile. The rigmarole of meeting and dating people loses it's appeal before coming back during a spell of longing and boredom.
That said, I have a curiosity about sex and find scenes in movies and TV series fascinating and arousing. I enjoy the fantasies more than the reality it seems.
If you're struggling on dating apps I recommend acespace . love (remove the spaces) - it's more of a social network than dating site which works for me because I'm not sure if I'm aro or not (but I'm definitely ace)!
But if he / she is aromantic but not ace wouldn't that be the exact opposite of what they want?