Published on 12, July, 2020
As the saying goes. Trying to get my head around the contradiction between being told I belong and am wanted here and the heavy, and often very condescending ,criticism that's currently being directed at me.
For what it is worth, I haven't really seen or felt condescension being aimed at you, nor criticism, to be honest. I see you an an active and productive member of this community, who commands not insubstantial respect and a growing warmth for you, from all.
Now - this is not to say that ANY of the above words (that honestly report my perception on the matter) are even remotely correct.
I think that this may be at the heart of the matter. We are prone to misinterpretation, misconception and miscommunication.