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The problem with dating services for autistic people.

Peter
1 month ago
  • Autistic people struggle to form romantic / sexual relationships
  • Autistic men (diagnosed) outnumber autistic women by orders of magnitude
    • It is not practical to attempt to address relationship difficulties in autism by assisting (diagnosed) autistic people in forming connections with each other only.
      A variety of dating ‘clubs’ and even specialist apps have been created to assist autistic people in dating, but they all focus on hooking up autistic people with each other.

In order to hook up autistic people with non-autistic people a service has to either

  1. Be open to both autistic and non autistic people, or
  2. Have access to a pool of neurotypical ‘volunteers.’

In case 1 the question is

  • how can the service provide a dating advantage to autistic people while still attracting neurotypical people to use the service.

In case 2 the question is

  • how can the service attract neurotypical volunteer ‘dates’ in reasonably large numbers without attracting people who would abuse the volunteer role.
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  • 1 month ago

    autistic people wont wanna meet anyone.

    tried it myself.... someone asked me out like... one time, and i didnt wanna go out, i wanted to stay in lol didnt wanna meet some random from the internet after all. 

  • 1 month ago in reply to Caelus

    Its true, yeah, i could ask a autist woman out, and maybe she even dress nice and everything, but its hard to be social, when all she wanna do is stay inside and play LEGO and watch silly tv shows

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  • 1 month ago in reply to Caelus

    Its true, yeah, i could ask a autist woman out, and maybe she even dress nice and everything, but its hard to be social, when all she wanna do is stay inside and play LEGO and watch silly tv shows

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  • 1 month ago in reply to Lestat

    I mean that autistic women is statistically more likely to be ace/lesbian and there are lot fewer of them. In this scenario we’re really talking about how to facilitate dating Neurotypicals.