Published on 12, July, 2020
These concepts have been bugging me so can others share their experiences if not too upsetting in order that I can form a clearer picture of myself?
I used to be on here a long time ago under another name (H) but had to leave because I got very ill. I'm much better now so decided to come back here as I missed the interactions and honest discussions about things that aren't discussed in the "real" world if it can be called that - eye roll.
I find I communicate best on here and in my day to day life with people who are quirky and not run of the mill. My daughter who is 13 and diagnosed Autistic reckons I'm weird like her as she puts it and so we are happy in our own little weird bubble. I no longer see it as an insult as it used to be when I was growing up. I got called weird a lot but always thought it was the other person who had the issue and not me because to me they were like carbon copies of each other which I hated. Okay so back to the point. As I explained in a previous post, the psychiatrist who undertook my Autistic assessment said I had too much reciprocal conversation to be Autistic but that I had many traits of Autism. He also said it likely that my daughter would "grow out" of Autism as she learnt the skills to function in society. I personally found that unbelievable and insulting because why would I want her to not be herself anymore and I thought Autism is genetic so you can't grow out of it (neuroplasticity could make symptoms change though)... I think perhaps he was meaning that she'd be better able to cope as she knows herself and the world moving forward. What confuses me is that:
My understanding is that when I recognise the same traits in me in others, I can understand them because it is like looking at myself. Like looking at a reflection.
Yes, I see that happening with me too. :-)