I'm done with counselling

I had what I consider my final session today, it's not her, it's me.  It's on me to fix my problems and move on now.  

I wish I could have addressed my rejecting of my autism in the past, my repressed sexuality, or my general disappointment in humankind, but alas those subjects were perhaps beyond her charity mandated training.  (Mind Swansea)

I just reiterated the same junk and she and I just didn't connect at all.  50 minutes is a small window so I couldn't delve into the stuff that mattered and I said my goodbye over email.

Also I'm tired of talking about myself and the person on the other side of the room not giving a ***.  A paying client more than a person.  I might as well take a vow of silence and stay in the background.  

Please don't try to convince me to try again, I have been pushing my luck with the local services for years and I've just about run out of chances.

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  • In the UK, it is not. Anyone can describe themselves as a "psychologist"

    I'm surprised the UK is so shoddy with this.

    Counsellors do not seem to be regulated at all from what I can see, while a large portion of psychologists are which reinforces the point I made.

    I guess people would be wise to check if their potential "psychologist" is one who is a registered practitioner using the register:

    https://www.hcpc-uk.org/check-the-register/

    For those psychologist from outside the UK then a deeper dive into their qualifications would be wise and look into the status of the issuing body as some are fake.

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