Parental Bias and Autism

We often get posts on the form asking for advice with autistic children. And I can't help but notice the requests overwhelmingly relate to low functioning autistic children. As someone who is quite high functioning and had a very disrupted and turbulent childhood I can guarantee you it's not because high functioning autistic children don't have just as many issues. Nore is it that high functioning autistic children are particularly rare. We recently had a discussion on this point in another thread and figures I dug up indicated around 40%+ of autistic children being diagnosed these days are of average or above average intelligence.

So the question I'm asking is this. Why don't those parents come looking for help? Is it because the main stream schooling and support systems are so much better at supporting high functioning children? I doubt it. Is it because they tend to think of their child’s behaviour as 'naughty' not 'autistic?' Is it maybe they don't accept or agree with their child’s diagnosis? What do you think it is?

More to the point:

  1. How can high functioning autistic children get the help they need if their own parents won't seek it on their behalf?
  2. How can we raise awareness of the needs of high functioning children among parents and professionals?

Edit ps: For the simplification of this entire discussion and to avoid a long drawnout arguments over semantics. Instead of high functioning we shall say high IQ meaning an IQ of 85+ and instead of low functioning we will say low IQ meaning an IQ less than 85. As measured on a standard clinically approved IQ test.

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  • For the simplification of this entire discussion and to avoid a long drawnout arguments over semantics. Instead of high functioning we shall say high IQ meaning an IQ of 85+ and instead of low functioning we will say low IQ meaning an IQ less than 85. As measured on a standard clinically approved IQ test.

  • Peter, I don't think IQ is the answer. In terms of " functioning", autism is a disorder of social communication, not a deficit in intelligence. Although co-morbidities mean that people with severe communication difficulties often also have an intellectual impairment, the two clinical entities are different. You can have people with significant intellectual disabilities who have more developed social skills than some autistic individuals with low-average or even average IQs.

    When it comes to kids, I would say that "functioning" includes things like -

    Plays alone > Plays alongside > Plays team games but does not follow rules > Plays team games like peers

    Unable to decide what to eat for lunch > Can choose from two or three items by pointing > Has favourite food items > Can make a balanced choice at the canteen. Likes Thursdays because that's pizza day.

    Points or grabs > Use PECS to ask for an object > Uses single words or short phrases > Asks politely for what he wants, even if it is not visible.

    In education terms, we are talking roughly about a special school for kids with profound learning disabilities, a special school or unit following an entry-level curriculum (what used to be Moderate Learning Difficulties), or an autistic child with support in a mainstream classroom.

    Of course, there are grey areas and overlaps ... but if I get a call regarding a child, it helps my thinking to get a rough idea of their level of need.  What I am talking about is not a fixed diagnostic category, but a general view regarding a child is at or above age-related expectations, slightly below, or significantly below.

    I am going to do a family court report regarding an eleven-year-old boy, and in order to plan my approach, an IQ score is not helpful. Am I going to meet a bright but geeky Aspergers' tween, or a non-verbal child with the developmental age of a toddler? Will he have an age-appropriate understanding of my role, and what the court case is about, and be able to say what he wants?  Will he be able to understand a simple explanation with social stories, maybe express himself by drawing pictures or answering closed questions?  Will he have no idea what my visit is about, and I will need to use indirect methods to attempt to judge what his wishes and feelings are?  That is what I would regard as "functioning" in this context.

    In terms of intellectual ability / IQ that may be relevant when it comes to the methods I use - I use different versions of Barnardo's "worksheets" and some kids write sentences, some draw their answers to verbal questions, or just point to pictures. Some kids can complete standardized tests such as the Adolescent Wellbeing Questionnaire unaided, some can answer verbally, and some cannot manage it at all.

  • When it comes to kids, I would say that "functioning" includes things like -

    Plays alone > Plays alongside > Plays team games but does not follow rules > Plays team games like peers

    Unable to decide what to eat for lunch > Can choose from two or three items by pointing > Has favourite food items > Can make a balanced choice at the canteen. Likes Thursdays because that's pizza day.

    Points or grabs > Use PECS to ask for an object > Uses single words or short phrases > Asks politely for what he wants, even if it is not visible.

    In education terms, we are talking roughly about a special school for kids with profound learning disabilities, a special school or unit following an entry-level curriculum (what used to be Moderate Learning Difficulties), or an autistic child with support in a mainstream classroom.

    I found the above + the rest of your concise post very helpful.

    You've given situational context which I think is really important when discussing/debating 'functioning'.

    In terms of " functioning", autism is a disorder of social communication, not a deficit in intelligence. Although co-morbidities mean that people with severe communication difficulties often also have an intellectual impairment, the two clinical entities are different. You can have people with significant intellectual disabilities who have more developed social skills than some autistic individuals with low-average or even average IQs.

    I think this is an important point to remember too.

  • I can call myself weirdly wired, geeky, neurodivergent, or anything I like ... but "autism" is a label that only comes with a clinical diagnosis.  I can be hyperactive, lively, and difficult ... but ADHD is a clinical diagnosis.

    Yes I understand what you mean but no one needs to be defined by the pathology paradigm (medical model). Different types of people and therefore different types of brains have always existed, it is just know that we live in a capitalist society where minority groups are assumed to be disordered.

    How can one expect special accommodations under equality legislation, if neurodivergence is just a social difference like having blue eyes and red hair rather than brown eyes and brown hair?

    Neurodivergent is a neutral term, someone can identify as neurodivergent and disabled, but not everyone identifies this way.

    Neurodivergent needs are human needs so we deserve to be supported with our access needs, just like anyone else. The term neurodivergent does not deny that someone has access needs, it just states that someone’s brain diverge from neuro normative culture. It just helps to describe how we have different needs and experiences.

    Also, the reason why neurodivergence is categorised as a social difference is because it is a difference in the same way that there is diversity in gender and sexuality amongst other things in society. Also by understanding that neurodivergence is a social difference we can educate people about how how the neurodivergent community faces prejudice and marginalisation in the same way as other minority groups.

    If you want to learn more about this please read the book ‘We’re All Neurodiverse’:

    We're All Neurodiverse: How to Build a Neurodiversity-Affirming Future and Challenge Neuronormativity https://amzn.eu/d/3BLeEhD

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  • I can call myself weirdly wired, geeky, neurodivergent, or anything I like ... but "autism" is a label that only comes with a clinical diagnosis.  I can be hyperactive, lively, and difficult ... but ADHD is a clinical diagnosis.

    Yes I understand what you mean but no one needs to be defined by the pathology paradigm (medical model). Different types of people and therefore different types of brains have always existed, it is just know that we live in a capitalist society where minority groups are assumed to be disordered.

    How can one expect special accommodations under equality legislation, if neurodivergence is just a social difference like having blue eyes and red hair rather than brown eyes and brown hair?

    Neurodivergent is a neutral term, someone can identify as neurodivergent and disabled, but not everyone identifies this way.

    Neurodivergent needs are human needs so we deserve to be supported with our access needs, just like anyone else. The term neurodivergent does not deny that someone has access needs, it just states that someone’s brain diverge from neuro normative culture. It just helps to describe how we have different needs and experiences.

    Also, the reason why neurodivergence is categorised as a social difference is because it is a difference in the same way that there is diversity in gender and sexuality amongst other things in society. Also by understanding that neurodivergence is a social difference we can educate people about how how the neurodivergent community faces prejudice and marginalisation in the same way as other minority groups.

    If you want to learn more about this please read the book ‘We’re All Neurodiverse’:

    We're All Neurodiverse: How to Build a Neurodiversity-Affirming Future and Challenge Neuronormativity https://amzn.eu/d/3BLeEhD

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