Masking, or....?

Hello folks :) 

I am part of a separate autism friendly group (on WhatsApp and Zoom) and recently we have been talking about masking but I am a bit too shy to say that....I don't really understand.

Like - am I supposed to be able to tell if I'm masking and if I'm not? The group organiser said some people just simply don't mask, so maybe I am one of those? I am very newly diagnosed so I'm still trying to get my head around all the terms and facts and stuff. 

Like, I can tell sometimes I am forcing eye contact or forcing a laugh or something, especially with new people, but with people like close family I feel just like I am kind of myself with - so I don't understand where the lines are?

Can anyone explain how they view masking - then maybe I can relate?

Thank you in advance for reading and/or replying. 

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  • I have always Masked on here by hiding behind HUMOUR.
    Without it i am a nobody.
    Some People laugh, and some i offend.
    BUT i  can't help it.
    I have alienated everybody on here because of it.
    Am so misunderstood.
    It is what it is and i accept that.
    I hate me more than you do,trust me.
    If i at least made some of you smile then it was worth the ban.
    Best wishes All.
    Defy Leepy. x

  • Def Leepard

    If people hate you here I've seen none of it, indeed, you appear to be well liked. 

    But it's true that I haven't been here long, so maybe what do I know, eh? 

    I don't hate anybody, not you, either Slight smile

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