Arguments on the forum

I don't know about others, but I'm getting a little concerned that the arguments will put off new members.

Quite often people join and then disappear quite quickly.

I've been involved in these myself on occasion, so I'm not innocent.

However, maybe the mods could create a section where these potentially contentious threads could be placed that had a heading like NSFW (a new one on me but it seems to be well known).

If a seemingly innocuous thread then turns into a constant argument, perhaps it could be moved to there.

It's sometimes interraction between older males and older females (or non binary etc) and comes down to very different relationship/*ex points of view but can of course stem from any subject and any set of contributors.

I think it happens more often than it once did, and I've not been here a year yet.

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  • Hi Debbie,

    I hope you are well.

    I don't post a lot anymore. I like this community but I'm suffering mentally and a lot of the time I get triggered being here which is a shame because I really like it here. I noticed we don't get nearly as many new members anymore and those who do join rarely stay.

    I won't get involved in the debates on this page.

    Have a good night all.

    Nat.

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  • Hi Debbie,

    I hope you are well.

    I don't post a lot anymore. I like this community but I'm suffering mentally and a lot of the time I get triggered being here which is a shame because I really like it here. I noticed we don't get nearly as many new members anymore and those who do join rarely stay.

    I won't get involved in the debates on this page.

    Have a good night all.

    Nat.

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