Published on 12, July, 2020
So another thread relating to trans rights has been locked under Rule 4 ‘Be Nice’ , but shouldn’t hatred directed at trans people be actually deleted? The thread was going really well with lots of trans, gender fluid and queer people supporting each other, but as usual the cis hets dive in to invalidate us. The mod response is not to target the prejudice but to lock the entire thread! This is wrong. Can we trans and queer and pride people on the spectrum not have a safe space here? I know the mods have a policy of non-deletion but this is wrong, were racist comments being made I’m sure they’d pounce on that pdq, but hate against trans people is unchallenged and left to stand. Apalling of you NAS!
I was afk and missed it being locked, but I have seen this happen before and tbh it isn't right that our spaces to talk get shut down just because others feel the need to come and disrespect those being supportive of eachother in the conversation. Trans folk on this forum are not failing to be nice just because we refuse to back down when being gaslit about our own experiences. There's nothing wrong with curious cis folk wanting to ask respectful questions in good faith but that isn't what is happening in the majority of these threads.The Mods are volunteers and there's a degree to which limitations can be expected BUT in a forum that claims to be a safespace where transphobia isn't allowed it's apparent that a professional mod team should be the core of those roles with the volunteers as support because in other forums this kind of thing would not be allowed to continue. We're either all expected to follow those rules or none of us are.
I Sperg said:how respectful is it to clutter up an AUTISM forum with these issues
I Sperg said:This is NOT a sexual politics or trans support forum, there are plenty of places which support those issues, so can we please get back to the Autism,
I don't think that because this is a forum for people with autism, we should only talk about autism.
I mean really, that does make it look as though autism defines us, and we are more than that, and have more than that to talk about surely?
Some of your own threads are not about autism.
This subject offends you and you actually brought it up yourself recently in the thread about 'are there things you just don't get'.
I respect the views of others and I try to behave with respect towards those people if they have different views + life experience to me and I think that is true of others on this forum.
I Sperg said:And if you insist on attaching invented labels like "cis-gendered" when there is already a perfectly good word to describe us. We are NORMAL or STRAIGHT. Label yourselves by all means, and we normal people will even use your labels, but don't label us if you don't want US to label YOU.
And if you insist on attaching invented labels like "cis-gendered" when there is already a perfectly good word to describe us.
We are NORMAL or STRAIGHT. Label yourselves by all means, and we normal people will even use your labels, but don't label us if you don't want US to label YOU.
You are conflating gender identity and sexuality here.