Published on 12, July, 2020
I joined here around 5 months ago.
Since that time it's come to mean different things to me.
I think sharing experiences is invaluable but equally invaluable is the honesty I find here.
It's a place where we can talk about shared experience /our emotions/difficulties in a way that's impossible in the 'real' world - or at least if we speak about it there, it's unlikely to be understood.
It's a place to connect in a world where we often find connecting difficult.
I've received some PMs recently that have made me focus more on how very important this community can be to us as individuals.
Luna RIP called this her 'forum family'.
As a person who doesn't seek friendship (?or thinks she doesn't?), some surprising and valuable friendships have evolved from here for me.
How about you?
It's been informative and interesting reading this thread. I apologise for my less than positive, and upbeat, contribution to it. I'm going through a ' despondent and disillusioned' phase at the moment. It's been nearly 6 weeks since my father died. For practical ,health ,reasons I couldn't make the trip to be with him for his last few weeks.He had a long and largely good life.
Don't be sorry. We are here for you and always more than happy to see you here, whatever mood you're in ^^
I am also very sorry for your loss x.