Going to prostitutes as alternative to dating

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I mean you will find women into basically every fetish in the world out there so I wouldn't write off a real relationship just because you have a fetish. It just means you have a much smaller dating pool. Although if you're willing to be flexible it may be bigger than you'd think. There are lots of women who may not be into pee who are into something else that's kinky and would happily indulge your fetish if you'd indulge theres. just a thought.

Surely you are trolling at this point. I can't believe you think this is appropriate to share. You just want a reaction.

Stop being a troll. You cant use the label 'autistic' to justify degrading other people. Stop using autism as a justiicaiton for your irresponsible attitude. You give autism a bad name. A life-lesson for you and anyone listening - every single individual is a precious, worthwhile, important person. Nobody deserves to be treated in the disrespectful way you are behaving. You think buying something from someone gives you a right to devalue them. Wrong! Any misfortune you have experienced you have to judge your own inadequacies and not impose your dysfunctional thoughts onto others. 

Short posts seem much less tedious than long posts. Despite sharing identity as autistic, I find this site increasingly irrelevant to my life. Perhaps this should be a new thread on the theme of the utility or otherwise of this site.

Get yourself a pet, cat or dog.  They can be very affectionate and faithful.

Rebelling could have resulted in doing this once. Not repeatedly.

Also, the girls are not there to be ‘kept’ by you. They owe you nothing. They are working this job because they have to, and it helps feed their habit (in some cases). In no way are they to be thought of as a substitute for a girlfriend or relationship. You are just cash to them, so if they choose to try and extort more cash from you, they will. 
This is a fact. 

I suggest you try asking the girl out, outside her working environment making clear you want her company, but you're not going to pay her.  And see what happens.

Another reason I go to prostitutes is I have this weird fetish of watching females pee. I get turned on by girls peeing and wiping their vaginas after peeing. I spend hours watching pee videos on porn sites and in the past have struggled to act on my fetish.

Asking women inappropriate questions about their personal pee habits (like asking if they sit or hover to pee, how they wipe and what they do with no toilet paper etc). I have asked this both in person and on social media and often will fake being transgender male to female as my excuse for asking. Also in the past, I have gone into womens restrooms and sat in the stall and listened to females come in neighboring stalls to see if I hear them rip off toilet paper after peeing, also have taken toilet paper out of stalls and then offered it to them posing as another girl will high pitch voice and fake name. I once got caught by security when I did that at a college campus back in 2014 and got kicked out.

Now i see these escorts and they all engage in that fetish me, they all let me watch them pee and even let me wipe them myself after they pee. Afraid a normal girl in a relationship would not understand and allow that. Another reason I go to these escorts.

Also I get very angry if someone calls me out, like someone sees thru my fetish (either guy or girl) and tells others not to respond, that this person (me) is asking questions for sexual gratification. I respond by lashing out and cursing at the "snitch" or whatever you want to call them, who exposed me, even though they are right. Last year, I got suspended on facebook for 30 days because I told the guy who called me out I would kick his ass. 

And yes I am using the word girl cuz it refers to adult female in general. Nobody else I have ever encountered has accused me of being a pedo for using that word, even with my deviant fetish behavior, everyone knows its adult females. To the person who thinks the world girl makes one a pedo, havent they ever heard Katy Perry's song "California Girls", I mean come on

We live in a society where money and it's movements is for most people the absolute beginning and end of their lives.

If you do not (or cannot) "play the game" as far as money is concerned, our society is structured to carefully disempower you and divest you of all that you have both in terms of posessions and also "opportunity to participate" and then you end up effectively a "hunted animal" if you still refuse to "pay your dues"

The whole process of "collections" includes fees charges and from that point on, punitive interest rates as soon as the complicated process and yoru circumstances allow, meaning that you eventuually pay way more than you owed.

Credit is a nasty trap, where you effectively end up paying (in some cases) 30% extra PER YEAR added to the cost of something you want, to people who despise your lack of fiscal probity and will trun vicious as soon as you run into any problem that affects their cash cow. The way out of it is to pay it down, thus not being recorded as a "deadbeat" which is good in the long and short run, and NEVER BORROW FROM A BANK AGAIN. 

I've tried both approaches now, and the second one only "works" if when the collections agency start tracking you down they find that you went "left the system" fourteen years previously and anyone they do manage to contact who knows you, will not help them... Without being accused of being "unkind" again, I'd suggest from what you have posted so far, you are most unlikely to be able to "stay clear of the gears of society" and if you try defaulting, will get mashed up socially and financially speaking..

Unlike me, you clearly can attract money, so you can "take the hit and move on". And since you are young with your life in front of you, closing off your financial options would probally not work for you at all well. 

I do hoe that helps.

mostly because of my religious upbringing. I was raised in the church and forced to hear over and over "Wait until your wedding night, the bible commands us to wait." Hearing that over and over caused me anger and led to me rebelling, hence this. 

And its not a competition, but the reason why the number of girls is so high is read my description of each girl. They keep screwing me over and acting bad to me, I cannot keep a longtime regular, so replace her with new girl. Thats why

No I do not want to resort to that as that is the incel way of thinking. And btw I am not an incel and hope nobody thinks I am one. Those incels are sick, thinking they are owed sex and hate women wanting to hurt women and then go around calling these jock guys chads etc etc. I do not think like them one bit, never, I am just lonely for female companionship.

Honest truth incels disgust me. Also pedhofiles disgust me - never would I want to be with a girl under 18, in fact even college age girls are too young for me at this point (dating 18-19 year old girls is not illegal, but creepy cuz I am 34, not to mention huge maturity difference, nothing in common etc.). I would say I am not interested in females under 25 . I am explaining this because one member got offended when I said girls and I tried to explain here in the states, girls in am interchangeable term along with women, ladies, chicks, etc that everyone uses to describe adult females. He thought I was referring to female children, which I was not. 

Also I am not a sex addict either, if I was i would constantly want sex. I only want sex like once a week or every 10 days or so, like most typical guys who are in relationships (I am aware that even married couples, many times do not have sex as often as you may think). SO I hope that clarifies. 

And again change my looks wont change my aspergers social traits, some of my traits can't be helped. Persons with any type of manageable high functioning disabilities can live successful independent lives and be well respected, but still some of their disability traits are lifelong and cannot be changed. 

regarding credit card debt, what happens If I just refuse to pay my credit card. Will the credit card company cancel my card and then send my account balance of $9000 to collections and then would collections sue me and garnish my wages? I was not sure because someone told me those are the consequences if I ever tried to just downright never pay my credit card.

That's awful! You don't deserve this! If you want to have sex go have sex with older women because i saw you said they are more empathetic.

And never ever give money to girls they don't deserve it. 

Unless if they are sex workers and need money to have sex with you because it's their job not for another reason.

And never have sex without a condom it's really dangerous, it can gives you AIDS or get a girl pregnant.

I'm just saying as an idea match maker is one I'm very sceptical of. I'm not nesscerjaly suggesting any other solution is better. seems to me in this area almost all roads lead to a bad result. Most honest match makers would turn a hard case down because the work needed to make any headway is more than any reasonable fee they might charge. That leaves you with the dishonest matchmakers who will take your money and do nothing.

I pressed the number button by mistake! 

1. She will be out there somewhere! 

What's growing up in the 90s got to do with anything? 

I grew up in the 90s. You are a man, I'm a woman. We haven't been girls and boys for a very long time! 

Who said I was pragmatic? I’m stubborn and set in my ways, having grown up in the 90s, and generally object to people trying to force a change in linguistic standard on me we’ve never needed before. But it serves my argument to point out here it is you who is on the wrong side of pragmatism.

He doesnt actually have to disclose that though. The main thing is that he checks his sexual health status before starting any relationships.