Hi everyone, I'm looking for some advice please.
I am a 56 year old who has lived my life thinking i was neurotypical. I have just been diagnosed as aspergers (which explains a lot of things in my life).
Im in a bit of a dilema as to whether I should tell my partner of 20 years.
We are on the point of splitting up at the moment, and we have kids together.
I dont want to blame everything on aspbergers, or grasp at straws with the relationship, but I do think its probably relavant.
If I tell her, I know she will tell kids, and Im not sure if I want them to know about it.
Has any got any advice, or been in a similar situation?
Thanks
Dave