Hello.
I have been married for 14 years and my husband has autism. We are struggling. There are times being married that he says or does something that hurts my feelings in some way. I express this to him. For me that's it the issue is resolved. My husband feel's that its always him that upsets me and not the other way around. He said that this makes him have low self esteem. I have spoken to a counsellor who said that its normal to upset each other and have disagreements, its resolving that is the issue. My husband feels that it is always him upsetting me and its affected his self-esteem so he does not have any. He Has said hes felt it for ten years and not said anything before. I don't know what to do to help. I cannot not say if I'm upset. There are times when i am upset i dont say anything but i cannot do it all the times. Any comments gratefully appreciated.Thanks