Office politics

Hi all,

My name is Perry and I have recently joined the NAS. I am 29 and was diagnosed with Asperger's in childhood.

I found it a nightmare finding work, and when I finally did it was a temp job at a major UK company. Once I was in, it was easy to show how good I am (and ASD people are) when actually given that opportunity, and I am still there nearly four years later, having also turned into a permanent member of staff two years ago. I believe that I have been successful in all of my roles and have even developed systems which have automated and improved systems within the team.

The problem is, I just cannot progress. I was under the mistaken belief that quietly doing a great job will prove to people that I am worthy of more responsibility and the chance to move into a more challenging and rewarding role, rather than being fed the scraps that nobody else can be bothered to do.

I have queried this with the management, who keep telling me about my "personal brand" (whilst also insisting that I am "very well-liked in the team"), but it has also been implied to me that I am beginning to be seen as a pain for making a noise about my concerns rather than just quietly "proving myself." With this in mind, I even disclosed my ASD status to my line managers, explaining that it is for this reason that "personal brand" is a difficult concept for me. Unfortunately, and perhaps predictably, it has had no effect. I have been looking to leave, applying for jobs elsewhere with no luck.

So how do I negotiate office politics? It really feels that the quality of work is less important than how you look and who you befriend, but there must be a way to successfully prove yourself in an office environment when you are on the autistic spectrum? Otherwise, it does feel that we are considerably disadvantaged here.

Any suggestions and ideas are welcome!

-Perry.

Parents
  • I will let you know when I find out. 

    Every workplace I have found to be similar. 

    The issues in all cases is me so some jobs are just not a right fit, I excel at the work I do always but it's not enough and the people side of things will alway baffle me.

    I have taken courses to understand what is expected of a colleague, but it's just crapola people look for similarities between them and their peers I think it's a hardwired survival instinct and if you are different they pick up on it always, it's like the bird that rolls it's egg out of the nest. 

Reply
  • I will let you know when I find out. 

    Every workplace I have found to be similar. 

    The issues in all cases is me so some jobs are just not a right fit, I excel at the work I do always but it's not enough and the people side of things will alway baffle me.

    I have taken courses to understand what is expected of a colleague, but it's just crapola people look for similarities between them and their peers I think it's a hardwired survival instinct and if you are different they pick up on it always, it's like the bird that rolls it's egg out of the nest. 

Children
No Data