Office politics

Hi all,

My name is Perry and I have recently joined the NAS. I am 29 and was diagnosed with Asperger's in childhood.

I found it a nightmare finding work, and when I finally did it was a temp job at a major UK company. Once I was in, it was easy to show how good I am (and ASD people are) when actually given that opportunity, and I am still there nearly four years later, having also turned into a permanent member of staff two years ago. I believe that I have been successful in all of my roles and have even developed systems which have automated and improved systems within the team.

The problem is, I just cannot progress. I was under the mistaken belief that quietly doing a great job will prove to people that I am worthy of more responsibility and the chance to move into a more challenging and rewarding role, rather than being fed the scraps that nobody else can be bothered to do.

I have queried this with the management, who keep telling me about my "personal brand" (whilst also insisting that I am "very well-liked in the team"), but it has also been implied to me that I am beginning to be seen as a pain for making a noise about my concerns rather than just quietly "proving myself." With this in mind, I even disclosed my ASD status to my line managers, explaining that it is for this reason that "personal brand" is a difficult concept for me. Unfortunately, and perhaps predictably, it has had no effect. I have been looking to leave, applying for jobs elsewhere with no luck.

So how do I negotiate office politics? It really feels that the quality of work is less important than how you look and who you befriend, but there must be a way to successfully prove yourself in an office environment when you are on the autistic spectrum? Otherwise, it does feel that we are considerably disadvantaged here.

Any suggestions and ideas are welcome!

-Perry.

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  • Thanks all for the interesting responses, which are all much appreciated.

    I have been largely working from home since March/April due to the COVID-19 pandemic and I have found myself, in this time, developing some real anxieties about my place and role within the team. This probably isn't the right attitude, but I just passed thirty years of age during the lockdown and now I am starting to feel seriously depressed about where I am in my life. Unfortunately, any jobs I apply for are amounting to nothing.

    But as has been said - I also have to consider myself exceptionally lucky that I am employed at all at the moment, not least in a position where I can work full-time from home at the moment.

    Many thanks again!

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  • Thanks all for the interesting responses, which are all much appreciated.

    I have been largely working from home since March/April due to the COVID-19 pandemic and I have found myself, in this time, developing some real anxieties about my place and role within the team. This probably isn't the right attitude, but I just passed thirty years of age during the lockdown and now I am starting to feel seriously depressed about where I am in my life. Unfortunately, any jobs I apply for are amounting to nothing.

    But as has been said - I also have to consider myself exceptionally lucky that I am employed at all at the moment, not least in a position where I can work full-time from home at the moment.

    Many thanks again!

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