Just shut up

So here I am mapping out how to interact with my wife.

I need to ignore her snips the constant injecting herself commenting on everything.

Or is it me am I too sensitive to her, I'm going to work on just ignoring the jibs, respond when she talks kindley.

I get it she gets annoyed everytime I challenge her on something, she needs to be heard  and achknowledge and respected even if I don't agree with what she's saying or telling me

about me.

She needs her opinions listened to.

This is hard for me, any thoughts welcome

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  • HI Mouse2, great advice, weve been I've been through lots of NT councilors, issue is they bought into my mind set and understanding of the world, and went main stream , that if a man goes to work then his wife must support him, they didnt of didnt have success challenging my thinking.

    That's why im here to get my mind set challenge so I stop hurting my wife.

    Thank you

  • I agree - anyone who has been on here a while knows I always try to help but I’ve not replied to Matthews post because the titles are full of aggression. As another pointer Matthew, you’ve posted several times about the issues with your wife - if you consolidated your thoughts into one post it’s easier to offer thoughts/ advice.