Just shut up

So here I am mapping out how to interact with my wife.

I need to ignore her snips the constant injecting herself commenting on everything.

Or is it me am I too sensitive to her, I'm going to work on just ignoring the jibs, respond when she talks kindley.

I get it she gets annoyed everytime I challenge her on something, she needs to be heard and achknowledge and respected even if I don't agree with what she's saying or telling me

about me.

She needs her opinions listened to.

This is hard for me, any thoughts welcome

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mouse2 over 5 years ago

Matthew, 1 if you word your posts titles a little less confrontational you will probably get more replies. 2 when lockdowns over i think a really good marriage counsellor would help
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Anthony over 5 years ago in reply to mouse2

I agree - anyone who has been on here a while knows I always try to help but I’ve not replied to Matthews post because the titles are full of aggression. As another pointer Matthew, you’ve posted several times about the issues with your wife - if you consolidated your thoughts into one post it’s easier to offer thoughts/ advice.
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Anthony over 5 years ago in reply to mouse2

I agree - anyone who has been on here a while knows I always try to help but I’ve not replied to Matthews post because the titles are full of aggression. As another pointer Matthew, you’ve posted several times about the issues with your wife - if you consolidated your thoughts into one post it’s easier to offer thoughts/ advice.
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Matthew over 5 years ago in reply to Anthony

Hi Anthony thats great advice, thank you.

The titles are the impact that i feel when communicating with my wife, her frustration hits me like a 10 out of 10.

I'll try to find a way of making it less aggressive
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