Social services removing children from parents with ASD

Hi, 

I am an autistic adult who is a parent. Since having my daughter I went through a terrible time with social services who set me up to fail and removed my daughter from me because I have a diagnosis of autism. It took me two years to fight for my daughter back and through this time social services and Cafcass used the so called deficits of my autism to justify the removal and to stop the return of my daughter. Thankfully the judge saw through this and returned my daughter concluding in her judgment that I parent my daughter to a high standard. 

I want to know how many my adults will autism who are parents have been through a similar situation. How many parents with ASD and other disabilities and or impairments are being targeted by social services and having their children removed? If you have experienced this please tell your story because the current system is outrageously discriminative against parents who have a disability and or impairment and I would like to raise awareness of the current failures within the current child protection system which is targeting parents with disabilities and or impairments so that change can happen. 

Parents
  • I had my daughter's removed a year ago purely for having aspergers, I am going to fight with all my might to get them back, no one was autism aware on my case and no allowances were made, my whole family have been alienated for over a year including their 20 month old cousin, they have been placed with my youngest daughter's  paternal grandparents so therefore my eldest has no relation to them and they have psychologically abused my daughter's telling them they'd never see their auntie again and that I would be sent to prison, I have looked after the girls from birth on my own with no assistance, I fully intend to take this as far as it can go to get them back, I had a positive parenting assessment also but nevertheless the paternal family to my youngest got granted an SGO, the girls have been there 10 months not a year like the criteria says and they also had no representation yet their opinion was always listened to by the social worker, guardian and judge yet I was bullied for my aspergers.

  • firstly I am sorry to hear that I am also a autistic adult but black male and have had my daughter adopted due to what id summarise is lack of professional candour and lack of equality and diversity, racism and ostracisation

    I would like to outline some major legal documentation alot of local authorities social workers and public authorities dont like to adhere to when interacting with DIFFERENT PEOPLE. 

    first thing I will say is get yourself a adult social and have a needs assessment done to identify what your difficulties are and what support u do need with or without children (this should be part of your transition plan being that alot of autistic people have difficulties with transitions and significant life events then having a child would of been such. How was you supported?) 

    I would then advise u to google and research on Statutory guidance for local authorities and NHS organisations on the implementation of the adult autism strategy (statutory means schools have an obligation under law to carry out this.)this is in line with the adult autism strategy

    if u have had a SEN report when u was a child there should be information already to what support u should have and receive if this support has not been put in place due to lack assessments then all support that was given as a child should be kept in place until new support is put in place and your needs are being met

    I would also like u to pay attention to the equality act 2010 which states discrimination by association means any child u have if you are discriminated against then you are to and anyone who you are related to and didnt recevie the support you or they should of received 

    the main principle of the children's act is to keep children within their families by all possible means this would include providing support to their parents where that support can be provided.

    all social workers have a duty of care o communicate effectively if this was not done effectively due to your autism needs whether they be u need face to face contact only (teams or something if not able) or only written so if they constantly phone u then u put in. complaint as people as this would be a reasonable adjustment that could be made 

    you could also look into a advocate who will also help to uphold your rights as a autistic individual this could be from Age uk or via your local authority adult social worker this does not have to be a stranger (professional)but can also be a family or friend or both stranger(professional and family member) who the social worker can interact with you over high flare situations that alot fo them exploit. Due to there lack of knowledge.

    ask a social worker the difference between a tantrum and a meltdown. Not many know the difference which in itself is very frightening 

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  • firstly I am sorry to hear that I am also a autistic adult but black male and have had my daughter adopted due to what id summarise is lack of professional candour and lack of equality and diversity, racism and ostracisation

    I would like to outline some major legal documentation alot of local authorities social workers and public authorities dont like to adhere to when interacting with DIFFERENT PEOPLE. 

    first thing I will say is get yourself a adult social and have a needs assessment done to identify what your difficulties are and what support u do need with or without children (this should be part of your transition plan being that alot of autistic people have difficulties with transitions and significant life events then having a child would of been such. How was you supported?) 

    I would then advise u to google and research on Statutory guidance for local authorities and NHS organisations on the implementation of the adult autism strategy (statutory means schools have an obligation under law to carry out this.)this is in line with the adult autism strategy

    if u have had a SEN report when u was a child there should be information already to what support u should have and receive if this support has not been put in place due to lack assessments then all support that was given as a child should be kept in place until new support is put in place and your needs are being met

    I would also like u to pay attention to the equality act 2010 which states discrimination by association means any child u have if you are discriminated against then you are to and anyone who you are related to and didnt recevie the support you or they should of received 

    the main principle of the children's act is to keep children within their families by all possible means this would include providing support to their parents where that support can be provided.

    all social workers have a duty of care o communicate effectively if this was not done effectively due to your autism needs whether they be u need face to face contact only (teams or something if not able) or only written so if they constantly phone u then u put in. complaint as people as this would be a reasonable adjustment that could be made 

    you could also look into a advocate who will also help to uphold your rights as a autistic individual this could be from Age uk or via your local authority adult social worker this does not have to be a stranger (professional)but can also be a family or friend or both stranger(professional and family member) who the social worker can interact with you over high flare situations that alot fo them exploit. Due to there lack of knowledge.

    ask a social worker the difference between a tantrum and a meltdown. Not many know the difference which in itself is very frightening 

Children
  • It is easier to apply to a First Tier Tribunal such as SENDIST if one is a litigant in person.  Using the regular court system is expensive, and these days Legal Aid is far less available than it used to be.

  • Agreed. I have presented at the SEN Tribunal and won. But local authorities have legal departments, and some parents instruct lawyers to even the score. I was up against an SEN Officer (administrator) who was not well prepared and the kid got his assessment. In the last case where I was an expert, the parents chose to be legally represented because it was a more complex case.

    There are two main types of schools in England - academies which are run by trusts and funded directly by the DfE, and schools that are maintained by a local authority and funded mainly by a grant from the DfE.  Either way, the DfE has the money, and the academy or LA has the duty.  In the same way, the local authority funds the EHCP, and if the actual provision costs more, tough, the school has to pick up the tab. Only the governors also have to maintain the fire alarms, repair the boiler and still balance the budget. 

    Your solution sounds sensible, but if the roundabout is part of a road programme funded by a grant from the Department of Transport, you can't spend the money you save on schools. All the roads are already full of potholes as a result of cuts last year and the year before and the year before that. The Local Government Association estimated in 2018 that adult social care services would face a funding gap of £1.5bn by 2019-20 and £3.5bn by 2024-25. [Guardian]  That's an awful lot of roundabouts and piles of bin bags.

    Getting back to autism, what would be the response if an autistic adult had as part of their care package some sort of sports or fitness or sports activity, but the sports centre had been closed to pay for an autistic kid's school place? But the council "has" to provide both ... OK, reductio ad absurdum, but I hope you get the point.

    As for the so-called National Curriculum, the details are set by the Head Teacher and governors. So the school where I am a governor chose Mandarin as part of its modern foreign language offer, and the school down the road chose Spanish. Our kids play brass instruments, the school down the road plays recorders. One secondary school offers an NVQ in construction, another offers health and social care and beauty care.

    A recent child death enquiry involved a parent who prioritised her substance abuse over her child's welfare. Society expects social workers to stop dysfunctional parents from killing their children. One could equally blame the police since drug misuse and child neglect are crimes and their job is to prevent crime. Just don't blame the parents. [sarcasm]

    Child protection is not as easy as the armchair experts would have you believe. Take a child into care and you are a baby snatcher who has no respect for parents' "rights". Leave the child to be killed by their "loving and caring" [sarcasm] parents and the same critics are baying for your blood. Social workers are expected to get it right every time or face personal abuse - or worse. I wonder how many people here get death threats from their "customers" in the course of their work? 

    Unfortunately, we have to live in the real world, and it is confusing. We are not very good with cognitive dissonance and random disorder, but stuff happens anyway.

  • If the authority does not have the resources, the guidance alone cannot be used to force them to overspend.

    I mean the court absolutely can force the local authority to over spend if it issues an injunction they can only follow by over spending. I remember this tv interview where a councillor was defending a frankly untenable position where they were being taken to a SEND tribunal for an administrative mistake where a special needs student wasn't given a priority place in the school they were entitled to. The school now being full the council was offering a school place that clearly didn't meet the students needs. And the councillors position was 'well the schools full, what do you expect us to do kick another student out.' And the question that should have been asked and wasn't was 'well the tribunal has the power to order you to give the student a place at that school so what do you do if it does?' The obvious answer is they spend money on additional staff, possibly even a porter cabin, or risk the courts response. That could involve borrowing or slashing some other areas budget. Maybe some area isn't getting its mini roundabout this financial year.

    Social care and to a lesser extent education are areas people mostly only notice when they go wrong so the temptation is to prioritise spending on more visible areas like roads, transport, bin collection and leisure. If local councils prioritised their social care and education budget and left every other department to make do with the funding that was left the roads would be full of pot holes, the leisure centres would be closing down and the streets would be overflowing with rubbish. And they'd all be voted out. Because at the end of the day people don't think of their schools and social care as a council thing. They're 'state' schools not council schools. They have a 'national' curriculum not a local one. When some poor child dies because social services screwed up and its all over the papers people don't write to their councillors they write to their MPs. Really social care and education should be placed into central governments direct control and funding. Or possibly to a devolved authority if we get some english devolution.

    if you are also instructing a lawyer you are unlikely to get much change from £10k for SENDist.

    I thought SEND tribunal panels were encouraging more people to come without a lawyer. The panel itself is generally composed of two experts and an experienced legal professional so its not as if the panel has to take the local authorities expert 'on faith.' The panel is inquisitorial in nature and can pick apart the experts argument if there are evident flaws in it, especially if the complainant has already called into doubt one or two of the experts assertions. With a preexisting diagnosis for autism and a pre existing ECHP which the local authority isn't following maybe you wouldn't need expert testimony or a lawyer in every case. Just a good set of arguments as to why the councils interpretation of the ECHP was invalid. Ofcouse SEND tribunals have no power over decisions over children going into care anyway.

  • Thanks, Peter. You make some good points.

    I was making a general comment regarding guidance, not specifically the Autism Act guidance.  Local authorities also have other statutory duties, e.g. to prepare a balanced budget and not over-spend. If the authority does not have the resources, the guidance alone cannot be used to force them to overspend. A lot of my work involves young people in education settings, and LEAs and governors have to balance the needs of an individual pupil with the needs of the other pupils in the school and the "efficient use of resources". [EA96 s 317(4)]

    We also have a situation where service users or their parents who have resources can pay for independent experts and lawyers to challenge authorities, but it is expensive. An independent psychologist, OT and social work report will cost a few thousand pounds, and if you are also instructing a lawyer you are unlikely to get much change from £10k for SENDist. (Although you can represent yourself or use a lay advocate, and a lay advocate may cross-examine witnesses, etc.)

    The advantage of an Ombudsman complaint is that it does not usually require legal representation, and comes at the end of the local authority complaints procedure, so you will already have an idea of the authority's response.

  • Regarding "statutory guidance ", - it is statutory because it is linked to legislation. Unlike primary legislation (e.g. Acts of Parliament), the guidance is just that - guidance. Authorities must "have regard" to the guidance.

    I'm afraid not. I mean guidance isn't really guidance if its issued under section 7 of the Local Authority Social Services Act 1970 which the autism guidance is. The very specific legal interpretation of 'having due regard' is

    "Parliament by section 7(1) has required local authorities to follow the path charted by the Secretary of State’s guidance, with liberty to deviate from it where the local authority judges on admissible grounds that there is good reason to do so, but without freedom to take a substantially different course."

    So if a council (or the NHS) wants to deviate from the guidance they must be prepared to persuade a judge that they have admissible grounds, a good reason and that their deviation is not substantial in case their decision is challenged in court. The guidance it self says

    "Local authorities and NHS bodies must not only take account of this guidance, but also follow the relevant sections or provide a good reason why they are not doing so"

    So simply not giving a reason as to why you haven't followed guidelines will generally be a breach of guidelines.

    Most guidance uses two keywords. If it says the authority MUST do x or y, that is an absolute requirement. If it says "should", it is a recommendation.

    Broadly speaking this is true

    Usually, guidance has phrases such as " so far as reasonably practicable", which basically means they ought to do it if they have the money and resources.

    I can't find an example of that kind of language with the autism guidance in relation to 'must' statements. In fact the guidance says:

    "Local Authorities (and in particular their Social Services Directors), NHS bodies and Foundation Trusts may depart from this but only if they can demonstrate a good reason for doing so. Lack of sufficient resource would not necessarily constitute a good reason."

    The fact that statutory guidance has not been followed may be used to support a claim to a Tribunal or a complaint to the Ombudsman, but it is not, in itself, actionable. For an Ombudsman complaint, it is necessary to prove that there has been "maladministration".

    I would imagine any action in relation to failure to follow the guidance is more likely to be brought under the equality act, human rights act, MCA or mental health act etc.


  • not tracking anyone perception being blunt and literal https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/422338/autism-guidance.pdf there's the statutory guidance that is available via any google search reason why it ws in capitals easy enough to research 

    "In typography, all caps (short for "all capitals") refers to text or a font in which all letters are capital letters, for example: "THIS IS TEXT IN ALL CAPS". All caps may be used for emphasis (for a word or phrase). They are commonly seen in legal documents, the titles on book covers, in advertisements and in newspaper headlines. Short strings of words in capital letters appear bolder and "louder" than mixed case, and this is sometimes referred to as "screaming" or "shouting". All caps can also be used to indicate that a given word is an acronym.

    Studies have been conducted on the readability and legibility of all caps text. Scientific testing from the 20th century onward has generally indicated that all caps text is less legible and readable than lower-case text. In addition, switching to all caps may make text appear hectoring and obnoxious for cultural reasons, since all-capitals is often used in transcribed speech to indicate that the speaker is shouting."

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/All_caps


  • I also have echolalia so repeat exactly what it says or close imagine u was a social worker down want to listen want to read it yourself is that learning of service users - would u want that service user to listen to u without proving your skills competence or knowledge 

  • random question can someones ego prevent them making professional judgements 

  • I have been interacting with numerous professional from different to organisations who were not even aware of this which is in line with the autism act bearing that in ind how can any autistic person be confident they receive the correct support 

  • not tracking anyone perception being blunt and literal https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/422338/autism-guidance.pdf there's the statutory guidance that is available via any google search reason why it ws in capitals easy enough to research 

    Under section 47(1) of the National Health Service and Community Care Act 1990,14 local authorities have a duty to assess a person who may be in need of community care services. Section 9 of the Care Act 201415 will replace the duty in section 47(1) from April 2015 (as to which see below). This assessment may be triggered either by the individual requesting it or if the local authority believes community care services may be necessary. This duty applies to people with autism and is not dependent on them having been formally diagnosed as having autism. Such an assessment should be carried out by trained practitioners, and where there are potential signs of autism, the assessment should take account of the communication needs of adults with autism. Assessment of eligibility for care services cannot be denied on the grounds of the person’s IQ.

    This is particularly important for some people with autism, including those with Asperger syndrome, who may face very significant challenges in their everyday lives, despite having average or above average IQ.

    The Care Act requires local authorities to conduct a needs assessment where it appears to the authority that the adult may have needs for care and support. It is vital that local authorities fulfil their duties under statute by ensuring that adults diagnosed with autism who may have care and support needs are offered an assessment.

    Under the Care Act (from April 2015), local authorities must:

    • Carry out a supported self-assessment of the care and support needs of an adult with autism if that is what the adult wishes (providing they have capacity to consent);

    • Involve individuals (including those with autism and their carers) when carrying out certain care and support functions in respect of them, such as when conducting needs or carers assessments, preparing care and support, or support, plans (and when revising such plans);

    • Where required provide access to an independent advocate to enable the individuals engagement in determining their support;

    • Arrange access to an independent advocate for individuals with autism for the purpose of facilitating their involvement in the above mentioned matters. In particular where a person with Autism would have difficulty in understanding the process
      of assessment including retaining that information, and or would not be able to meaningfully contribute their views, wishes or feelings and there is no appropriate person who knows them to support them in fully engaging in the process;

    • Identify the outcomes individuals (including those with autism) wish to achieve for their day to day lives in their needs assessments and carer’s assessment.

  • Preamble, Children Act 1989    " An Act to reform the law relating to children; to provide for local authority services for children in need and others; to amend the law with respect to children’s homes, community homes, voluntary homes and voluntary organisations; to make provision with respect to fostering, child minding and day care for young children and adoption; and for connected purposes."

    s.17 Children Act 1989

    17 Provision of services for children in need, their families and others.

    (1)It shall be the general duty of every local authority (in addition to the other duties imposed on them by this Part)—

    (a)to safeguard and promote the welfare of children within their area who are in need; and

    (b)so far as is consistent with that duty, to promote the upbringing of such children by their families,

    by providing a range and level of services appropriate to those children’s needs. "

    "so far as is consistent ... "  is not quite "by all means possible " (although the basic concept is very similar). I quoted the original legislation. In the real world, there are constraints on funding and the availability of services. 

    "According to statutory guidance" is not good enough. If you want to dispute, please cite your references, i.e. to which section of which statutory guidance are you referring?  Shouting in capitals does not make your case stronger. Nor does making your attack personal. I might not agree with your opinion, but I am not questioning your professional integrity. If you can explain what you consider "misinformation" and why, I will look at the evidence and correct and apologise as appropriate.

  • what if a local authority is unable to support a family in deciding whether they are able to parent due to lack of qualifications skills and competence again failure to whistle blow and ego affects many families as im a social worker u must listen to me. this adversarial approach would cause difficulties with many autistic adults and when not given an advocate autistic people are constantly put at a disadvantage due to people in a position of power and not wanting to accept there professional candour and failures and lack of support to families not just children 

  • the main principle of the children's act is to keep children with in their families by all means possible 

  • according to statutory guidance if a child with autism has previousy had care needs those care needs should be continued till an adult assessment is put in place and those needs are then being met which means if an adult hasn't had an assessment any needs that were in place continue until adult care are put in pace and their needs are being met again please refer to statutory guidance before it alkso clearly states that if local authority thinks that community services are needed an assessment should be done regardless if this is asked for and with the fact that social services are involved with families cut they believe they could benefit form community services again Ian alot of miss information and false information u are providing even with your experience please read the STATUTORY GUIDANCE ON FOR LOCAL AUTHORITTES AND NHS ORGANISATIONS ON THE IMPLEMENTATION OF THE ADULT AUTISM STARTEGY WHERE YOUR PERCEPTION MAY BE CHANGED DUE TO PROFESSIONALS IN THERE OWN EXPERTISE COMMENTING WITH IN THEIR EXPERTISE NTO EXPERIENCE AOT of experience is taught along with bad habits and things a teacher would not teach you reason why its not good to go under someone wing and learn from another employee as they may teach bad habits that are not good for the profession 

    British Association of social workers says that social workers should whistleblow per safeguarding protocols if training is enough or more is needed not many professionals are able to adit they are not able to deal with complex situations 

  • People who are adults now might have had a "Statement " of SEND, which ceased to have effect when they left school. EHCPs now last until 18 (or 25 if in education) and now include social care provision. Adults who are at uni are entitled to an assessment for Disabled Students Allowance and may get additional support. Adults who are at work, or seeking work, may get support from the Department of Employment. Adults with more significant support needs may be entitled to support under the Care Act 2014, but the LA is not required to provide services in every case - it depends on the needs assessment and what is available locally. Not all autistic adults need, or want, an assessment under s.9 Care Act 2014. Many autistic people function adequately without social care involvement.

    Regarding "statutory guidance ", - it is statutory because it is linked to legislation. Unlike primary legislation (e.g. Acts of Parliament), the guidance is just that - guidance. Authorities must "have regard" to the guidance. Most guidance uses two keywords. If it says the authority MUST do x or y, that is an absolute requirement. If it says "should", it is a recommendation. Usually, guidance has phrases such as " so far as reasonably practicable", which basically means they ought to do it if they have the money and resources. The fact that statutory guidance has not been followed may be used to support a claim to a Tribunal or a complaint to the Ombudsman, but it is not, in itself, actionable. For an Ombudsman complaint, it is necessary to prove that there has been "maladministration".

    The main principle of the Children Act 1989 is that "the child’s welfare shall be the court’s paramount consideration"  s1(1). Usually, this means keeping the child within the family. The Children Act talks of "parental responsibility " for the child - that means it is the parent's duty to look after the child. Parents' "rights" depend on them carrying out their responsibility for the child's welfare. If a parent is incapable, through substance abuse, mental illness, developmental conditions etc., the authority will try to support them, but the welfare of the child always comes first.

    Most autistic parents are  "good enough" parents (in the sense used by Donald Winnicott). The majority of parents' needs can be supported through tier 1 Universal services (school, GP) or Tier 2 (SEN help at school, Early Help, voluntary organisations.) Social workers usually get involved at Tier 3 where other services have not been effective, and the first line of approach is whether the child is "in need" (s.17 Children Act 1989). Even where there has been a safeguarding concern, many cases are "stepped down" to " child in need " support or to a tier-two service for parenting support.

  • neurodivergent I meant 

  • also statutory guidance is not optional. The law says councils or the NHS must be able to demonstrate they have a good reason for departing from guidelines when they do, and it costs too much is not a good enough reason. They can be taken to court for departing from guidelines.

  • Sorry I find it difficult to follow your argument.

    alot of people think there experts and only have level 6 5 or even 4 qualifications but I went to uni is acceptable to some people but as stated an expert is not only someone with the level 8 qualification and understanding but someone who also has numerous years experience where they have made numerous professionally qualified decisions with in their professional expertise is my perception of a "expert".

    well as an academic of course I do think academic research is good evidence of expertise however I won't say other experience can't be as well. But for the purposes of standards in healthcare it really should be experience that can be empirically measured.

    Autism is not a psychiatric disorder please be careful of malicious communication and publishing information the is not correct autism is a neurotypical condition

    Autism is not a psychiatric disorder but autistic people very definitely do not have a neurotypical condition. Not every time a doctor has to become involved in something will be an example of a disease. Intersex conditions are an example. I don't think most intersex people would consider it a disease but they often need a doctors help in explaining the implications of their variant biology to a world that isn't used to it.

  • statutory guidance for local authorities and NHS organisations on the implementation of the adult autism strategy also highlights target audiences many people do not adhere to statutory guidance 

  • from what I understand is the local authorities responsibility to 

    Seek to work with CCGs to ensure there is a suitably trained lead health professional to develop diagnostic and assessment services for adults with autism in their area.

    alot of local authorities do not adhere to statutory guidance for the adult autism strategy and again it clearly outline in the statutory guidance on what should be done and who should carry put the assessment skills competence nd knowledge is very important when addressing such a complex disability with the fact everyone is different in their own way. an autism expert is someone forget the label is someone who can demonstrate the skills knowledge and competence to meet a service users needs if they fail this once training is needed to keep things up date and is a part of safeguarding whistleblowing where people accept they dont have the qualifications to deal with a situation again peoples EGOs thinking they know best but comment out side of their merit or level of understanding how many social workers obtain level 8 education PHD and doctorates in itself proving limitations in knowledge and experience 

    in reply to inits you perception about comments about social workers wh according to the British Association of social workers have a legal duty to empower and work to peoples strengths and uphold the profession if they are not carrying out statutory guidance to exploit vulnerable adults then that is a very concerning matter u I have analysed and observed are more invested in protecting failures that are documented by people who have been directly impacted by this disgusting behaviour along with the heading that clearly is highly emotional and being that everyone is autistic I with my qualifications have expected language that may be offensive and such but u seem to enjoy pointing out the differences that make people autistic - imagine being a narcissistic saying things in a way where you act like eu dnt know but with your experience and qualifications should be expecting certain things so to be like ah I went to school today and I saw kids what did u expect.....

    alot of people think there experts and only have level 6 5 or even 4 qualifications but I went to uni is acceptable to some people but as stated an expert is not only someone with the level 8 qualification and understanding but someone who also has numerous years experience where they have made numerous professionally qualified decisions with in their professional expertise is my perception of a "expert".

    Autism is not a psychiatric disorder please be careful of malicious communication and publishing information the is not correct autism is a neurotypical condition but constantly classed as things it is not why people are commonly misdiagnosed with personality disorders, antisocial personality disorders and such due to even GPs and doctors not having the correct info or ill informed or trained again proving that only the person they refer u to who is level 8 qualified then corrects alot of false information due to a GPs or social workers perception

    for instance ive been referred to adhd services by my gp because I dnt keep eye contact again he didn't realise how demeaning this ws until I logged a complaint for discrimination but I guess I was supposed to listen to the doctors perception again people abusing their position in power making referrals that are needed due to lack of skills competence an knowledge and commenting outside the areas of expertise