Published on 12, July, 2020
I'm at the age now where I need a significant other in my life. I've been using POF for a while now and having no luck getting any responses from the hundred or so potentials.
Any idea where I should go?
You are not alone.
I have the same problem.
I am also looking for a significant other in my life.
I have a significant other, it's hard work. You never get the hang of those social clues that don t understand with strangers, I have a cat as well. If I had my time over i would just get the cat.
Is your husband aware of this? He does not sound very “significant” to you.
well, one certainly does, don't think it misses much really, somehow that's the part of a relationship it's least interested in...
oktanol said:lucky lady, despite the hard work, it seems totally worth it!
Very lucky!
I wonder, how the autistic people who are alone manage sex?
Do they live without sex?
I’m sorry but my existence is very very different to yours... please take more care of the joys you have and your good fortune
I’m pleased for you that your significant other is happy with this arrangement. You are indeed v.lucky. For him to look after you and you not to understand him and to belittle his existence. He must be very proud
....but you’d rather have a cat
lucky lady, despite the hard work, it seems totally worth it!
He is very significant, he is the love of my life, if everyone that is looking for love could find a partner like him the world would be a much happier place, we have been together for over 30 years, have 5 children and he looks after me. But humans are hard work, they have their own needs wants desires, he is NT but is wonderful in his understanding of me, I wish I could be more understanding though, because while he has a huge understanding of ND i still have virtually no understanding of NT.
The cat on the other hand either wants a stroke or to sleep or feeding. Simple even for me.