plz help

hi im new to thiis site.

my son is 3 years and 9 months he is waiting for autism diagnoses which will take about year.

my son is very energetic,positiv and happy boy but does not give eye contact at all.as a mother i feel if he gets therapy treatment at this stage he can recover enough but doctors say before diagnose no treatment can be strted properly , but i dont want to waste 1 more year. i cant leave him to become sevear. private therapies are very expensive and we are not entitled for extra funding for private treatment.

at the moment he is in a private nersary.now i come to know that if he is in a primary school nersary he could get 1 to 1 support there but its very late as all the primary school plces for september has gone .my son,s 1 year is gonna waste and he will remain in private nersary that is not entitled for 1 to 1 support.

what should i do now to get 1 to 1 support plz help