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Estranged ASD son

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Hello Everyone

This is my first time posting on this page . If you read my profile you will see a bit of the backstory of our estrangement . I am just wondering if there are any other parents out there in the same position as myself ?

I have so many regrets that I did not have the experience / knowledge of ASD to recognize that this is what my boy was struggling with . I am and have been feeling debilitating feelings of what I now know is grief as I have have lost my beautiful boy . How do parents in this situation actually come to terms with it all , or perhaps our situation is fairy unique ?

Thanks for reading 

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  • I am Bijay ***, reaching out in the hope of receiving assistance for my 3 years and 3 months old son, Rupak ***, who faces certain challenges related to autism, making it difficult for him to communicate clearly.

    In our residential area, there are no therapy facilities. We have attempted to access therapy services in the city, but due to our financial limitations, it has become challenging to afford such costly treatment regularly. I work in a remote location, and my wife has the responsibility of caring for our other young child, which has further restricted us from providing Rupak the necessary therapy.

    The silence of our son has deeply weighed on us emotionally. We believe that any invaluable support could bring back the happiness we have lost in our family. It has been disheartening that the state government has not shown sensitivity towards such issues, and therapy centers are largely focused on profit, adding to our struggles.

    Therefore, I am making this heartfelt appeal for any form of financial and moral support from you. Even a small amount of help from you would bring new hope to our family and play a crucial role in securing Rupak’s brighter future.

    I am open to any advice or alternative support you may suggest, and I am ready to coordinate with you as needed.

    I would be deeply grateful for your empathy and support.

    Sincerely,

    Bijay [content removed by Moderator due to breaches of the online community rules and guidelines]

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  • I am Bijay ***, reaching out in the hope of receiving assistance for my 3 years and 3 months old son, Rupak ***, who faces certain challenges related to autism, making it difficult for him to communicate clearly.

    In our residential area, there are no therapy facilities. We have attempted to access therapy services in the city, but due to our financial limitations, it has become challenging to afford such costly treatment regularly. I work in a remote location, and my wife has the responsibility of caring for our other young child, which has further restricted us from providing Rupak the necessary therapy.

    The silence of our son has deeply weighed on us emotionally. We believe that any invaluable support could bring back the happiness we have lost in our family. It has been disheartening that the state government has not shown sensitivity towards such issues, and therapy centers are largely focused on profit, adding to our struggles.

    Therefore, I am making this heartfelt appeal for any form of financial and moral support from you. Even a small amount of help from you would bring new hope to our family and play a crucial role in securing Rupak’s brighter future.

    I am open to any advice or alternative support you may suggest, and I am ready to coordinate with you as needed.

    I would be deeply grateful for your empathy and support.

    Sincerely,

    Bijay [content removed by Moderator due to breaches of the online community rules and guidelines]

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  • in reply to Bijaya

    Dear Bijay, 

    Thank you for sharing your experiences with our online community. We would like to remind you of rule 2 of our online community:

    This Community forum is public, so do not post personal or identifying details. This includes, but is not limited to, full names, addresses, contact details, social media, or photographs of yourself.  

    Kind Regards,
    Rosie Mod