Published on 12, July, 2020
I'd be very grateful for any advice. My 14 yr old daughter has had a burnout and has not attended school since December. She was self harming and had ideation of sucide in the months leading up to December. We had a meeting with school and welfare officer this week about her return to school. Before the meeting I had discussed with her how best to support her and we both agreed best way forward is if she could have home tutoring for core subjects and the 2 option subjects she would attend school .she was happy with that idea . Unfortunately the welfare officer is pushing for full return to school eventually. That will not work for my daughter as the school environment is the very place that causes most harm to her mental health and wellbeing. Everything she said was down to what the panel eould say and how unlikely they would do that . I'm stuck and I can't think of any other option but to deregister her but I'm not able to home school .this would be her gcse yrs.
Hi and welcome to the community.
I'm sorry to hear about your daughter's struggles and the predicament that you're in.
Whilst I don't have any personal experience or expertise to offer on the subject, I can signpost you to some NAS resources that you might find helpful:
NAS - Resolving differences in England - Information on resolving differences for students in England
There are also links for articles about resolving differences in other countries in the UK via the Resolving Differences menu link. And further eduction-related articles via the Education menu link.
Also:
NAS - Self-harm
NAS - Suicide