Returning to school due to meltdowns my grandson has only been to secondary school 8 times he was bullied and was really struggling with all the noises and crowds he had a meltdown everyday we now have been told he has been refused EHCP and saying he has to go back to school next week I’m so worried the same thing will happen he even as meltdowns when he’s doing something he enjoys the social worker came the other day and said to him if you have a meltdown at school don’t think you can come home and play on your iPad he told me what he had said I am distraught my grandson said Nan I can’t help having them and I can’t do anything afterwards but go to sleep this is not acceptable to say that to a child who in the past has been through neglect on my daughters part) and also struggles with everything other children take for granted it’s as if he’s saying it to be a warning and run crying to Nan which is not the case I’m unsure about sending him back there even though my grandson said he’ll give it a go but has been weepy and saying everybody will be staring at him I don’t know what to do for the best I’m soo worried any advice will be grateful