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Parenting / work balance / does it get harder ?

Mum on a mission :)

hello,

i wonder if any parents have changed role or taken a job that is easier / less stressful / less hours in order to support their child more? 

I am currently looking for a new role as need more stability financially and I would like to feel more fulfilled in my job.  However, I don’t know if I can face the extra responsibility and workload.  

More often than not before I take my lovely daughter to school I have been emotionally floored by a meltdown (I know she feels 100 times worse).   I feel I need all my energy to support her and manage the effect on her siblings. 

The more I read and research it feels easier to cope but some mornings I feel emotionally exhausted and don’t think I could cope with a more responsible role.  

Also I wonder as she gets older will it all just become more difficult, as she has exam stress etc will she need more support. 

Juat interested if other parents are in a similar situation x 

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  • Hi, 

    I have ASD myself and have 3 daughters, the youngest of which also has ASD. I do agency work, so I don't work that often, so I can still keep my hand in with work but can focus the majority of my time on looking after my children. If litlun wasn't ASD I might be inclined to put her into nursery a couple of extra days a week but I feel that would be unfair on her as she would struggle more than most with the separation from mum, she's a total mummy's girl! Once she's at school I'll be able to work a bit more. Do you have anyone else to help you with looking after your daughter?

  • in reply to Kitsune

    Hello ... well I do have a husband and he helps, i’m telling him all the things I learn or find out in my books or on this website and we are cobbling it together and getting by.  Thanks for your kind message, the kindness of everyone on here is overwhelming actually. Thanks again x

  • in reply to Mum on a mission :)

    Worth joining some of the parent led groups on Facebook too- huge support there. Loads of positive memes & plenty of other parents out there feeling the struggle & being very open & honest about how they’re feeling. Tons of good advice from those with experience- lots of good pointers & ideas & incentives where people have had to think outside of the box.

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  • in reply to Mum on a mission :)

    Worth joining some of the parent led groups on Facebook too- huge support there. Loads of positive memes & plenty of other parents out there feeling the struggle & being very open & honest about how they’re feeling. Tons of good advice from those with experience- lots of good pointers & ideas & incentives where people have had to think outside of the box.

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