Yeah I’m considering leaving the forum as I feel I no longer fit in here now and I seem to have become burdensome in some way so yeah I guess the time has come for me to leave. I have enjoyed my time here but I guess things change and move on.
Yeah I’m considering leaving the forum as I feel I no longer fit in here now and I seem to have become burdensome in some way so yeah I guess the time has come for me to leave. I have enjoyed my time here but I guess things change and move on.
Without wanting to guilt trip you into staying, I will miss you if you go, as I've really enjoyed talking with you and getting to know you a little. I don't feel you to be burdensome in any way and I'm sorry if you're being made to feel like this.
Aww you aren’t guilt tripping me at all. I’m not wanting to go but I just feel that I’m not really able to be helpful and I worry I have caused some issues and angered people when I wasn’t intending to do so. I’ve also noticed a lot of posts seem to be more parent related now and as I am not a parent I can’t comment so again I guess I feel more like I’m just in the way and like I don’t belong here. That could be how I’ve been treated in real life over the years though, it’s a long story.
I would miss our convos too and it could just be a phase I’m going through feeling this way but I just felt I needed to post how I feel.
Thank you for replying x
I think it's phase the site's going through, it's gone through more parent/child phases before, but this site should accomodate everyone.
I don#t seen that you've annoyed anyone and if someone has been annoyed by something you've said, then on the whole it's thier problem not your's, especailly as you've not set out to be hurtful, has it occured to you that you have a right to be annoyed by ohers, that its not all one way? I know I've upset and offended some on here, I post often on contravercial topics and often have to bite my tongue and not say what I really think or find a more diplomatic way of saying it, but people have a choice about what threads and topics they engage with and some people are a sense of offence looking for somewhere to manifest.Funnily enough they're often the people who shout the loudest about free speech, free speech seems to be OK as long as it them speeking and not anyone who disagrees with them.
Wow that’s really quite interesting to hear. Yeah my nan and grandad were working class compared to their siblings. They got married at 18 and within a year later their son was born haha. Now in today’s society I think a lot, not everyone but a lot of people only have kids so young so they get more money and don’t work. Same with those who marry and have kids then divorce, it boils my blood so much! I’m not saying everyone is like this but there are a lot of people out there unfortunately! I mean my mum has a friend whose son got taken advantage of this way and he’s now only allowed to see the kid once every few months but he doesn’t get any help I don’t think but his ex gets everything and she was the one who dumped him. Not to mention how she had to have on xmas day over 3months before her due date because she wanted it on Xmas day! I mean is that even allowed? Surely you can’t choose to have a kid so early? I will admit I’m not very well educated in these areas.
I have met quite a few people who have had kids in their late 30s/early 40s but they have been given a hard time for it but it’s their lives. I had a skin therapist who had her eldest at 19 but when she remarried in her late 30s she wanted another kid with her new husband but she got a lot of slack for it. I mean come on why can’t people just live their lives the way they want?
Wow that’s really quite interesting to hear. Yeah my nan and grandad were working class compared to their siblings. They got married at 18 and within a year later their son was born haha. Now in today’s society I think a lot, not everyone but a lot of people only have kids so young so they get more money and don’t work. Same with those who marry and have kids then divorce, it boils my blood so much! I’m not saying everyone is like this but there are a lot of people out there unfortunately! I mean my mum has a friend whose son got taken advantage of this way and he’s now only allowed to see the kid once every few months but he doesn’t get any help I don’t think but his ex gets everything and she was the one who dumped him. Not to mention how she had to have on xmas day over 3months before her due date because she wanted it on Xmas day! I mean is that even allowed? Surely you can’t choose to have a kid so early? I will admit I’m not very well educated in these areas.
I have met quite a few people who have had kids in their late 30s/early 40s but they have been given a hard time for it but it’s their lives. I had a skin therapist who had her eldest at 19 but when she remarried in her late 30s she wanted another kid with her new husband but she got a lot of slack for it. I mean come on why can’t people just live their lives the way they want?