Ordering of chats seems weird

I’m talking about this website. I find the way that chat responses are indented and ordered bizarre. Three are a couple chats that I’d like get involved in but they are well established and I’m never quite sure who has responded to what and I find it hard to know where to post - to which reply. I can see the indentation and time of post but the ordering seems weird. There is no flow. Anyone else? Mods, can this be changed, perhaps in a setting somewhere in my profile?

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  • Yes, I also noticed that! It would be also good if there was a function (optional) something like a red dot when you get a private message. It happened to me few times that I got pm but did not notice that on time. Only a month later and responded with a big delay and for no response. So it’s not me not wanting to communicate. It’s me not seeing that there is anything and someone wanting to chat. If I don’t want then I just leave it for time when I want. I would suggest that dich option would be optional because maybe some of us would get disturbed by such a red dot or maybe some of us don’t want to communicate in private at all and don’t care if anyone wrote anything or not. 

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  • Yes, I also noticed that! It would be also good if there was a function (optional) something like a red dot when you get a private message. It happened to me few times that I got pm but did not notice that on time. Only a month later and responded with a big delay and for no response. So it’s not me not wanting to communicate. It’s me not seeing that there is anything and someone wanting to chat. If I don’t want then I just leave it for time when I want. I would suggest that dich option would be optional because maybe some of us would get disturbed by such a red dot or maybe some of us don’t want to communicate in private at all and don’t care if anyone wrote anything or not. 

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