I have NEVER been able to tolerate wearing pants where the waistband is supposed to go or wear a belt that is snug. I wear them lower and loosely. They sit on the sides of my beautiful hips and never squeeze me. They don't show butt crack nor pubic region, but the tops of my butt cheeks are exposed from the pants (covered by my shirt). I also hate tucking in my shirt. It feels too restrictive.
I have seen people wear a belt so tightly around their belly that their body protrudes above and below the belt for the majority of the day. I have never asked, but I get uncomfortable thinking about how they are doing that? I rather never leave the house than wear a belt like that. It makes me so uncomfortable that I can't focus on anything else. Is this an autistic thing or am I just weird?