Am I the only autistic person who isn't blunt?

I think I might have hyper-empathy of some kind, as I've always gone out of my way to be diplomatic, avoid conflict, people please, express comprehensive understanding when appropriate about someone's upset or annoyance, etc. I suppose it could all be part of masking too -the 'fawn' alternative to fight, flight or freeze. The cost is a lot of internalised tension and pain. But I don't think it's phoney. It genuinely would/has upset me for ages if I though I'd been needlessly flippant or blunt with someone. I was told a while ago that I could be quite 'spikey', and it made me feel appalling, as I hadn't realised. I've been doubly vigilant since.

If you think you have hyper empathy, this video might be of interest to you:

https://youtu.be/tt-fzj_ogVM

Thank you NAS72221. I watched that one the other day, part of the reason the term was in my head. I can't identify with everything related in that vid, but certainly some of it! Especially that strong sense of second-hand embarrassment on others' behalf as well as my own. 

Thank you NAS72221. I watched that one the other day, part of the reason the term was in my head. I can't identify with everything related in that vid, but certainly some of it! Especially that strong sense of second-hand embarrassment on others' behalf as well as my own.