Life isn't meant to be fair

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. A lot of life is luck.

If you're a pessimist and a cynical person like me, then you'll often think that there's a huge amount of factors that affect your life, and that you only have control over a stark minority of them, so when you look back at your life and really think about it, you don't really have control over most of the things that happen in your life, and the autonomy you do have to write your own destiny is very small. It's sad but true. It's a harsh truth of life.

The notion of ‘meant to be’ implies a plan design or purpose. If life isn’t ‘meant to be’ fair then my question is according to who's plan and why should I care what someone who doesn’t value fairness thinks?

If you mean by saying ‘isn’t meant to be‘ that there is no plan then again I say why not? Why is there no plan? If there is no plan why haven’t you made one? Or I? And if there is no other plan what makes our plans any less valid than no plan at all.

life is meant to be fair, because according to my plan it should be. And I question why anyone else would want a plan where it isn’t? If you follow my meaning?

There is a lot of narcissism masquerading as humility these days.

Don't expect much then not only will u not be dissapointed,but maybe something might be good. Realism.

The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.   springs to mind 

The second statement , thats why we invented god .

expectations are just social brain washing to tell you what you should want.