advice needed

Hi

My daughter cam to me the other day and havng read about aspergers online and taking the tests believes she has aspergers, I do too, she show 90% of the traits, the thing that affects her most is her lack of social skills, she explained it to me as not having anything in her head to say when her peers are in conversation, she has to concentrate to thin kof something to say which doesnt come naturally, i am trying to get her diagnosed but would like some advice, there are no groups in my area but although i have a few suggestions for her it would help if there are others who have benefited from advice on how they can deal with this..