Abusive relationships

I don't feel like I've ever had a non abusive relationship, I've had 4 long term relationships and whilst the abuse hasn't been physical, its certainly been psychological and only looking back do I see how damaging they've been. I'm so much better off on my own and never want another relationship again.

Does anyone else feel the same?

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  • I've just from a friend who's struggling with the old chestnut about them wanting you to do everything with them, but never wanting to do anything with you, its all got to be about them and thier needs, wishes and likes.

    If theres something I want to do, I just plan to do it alone, looking back I've almost never had someone willing to do go anywhere or do anything I've wanted, so I've ended up either not doing it or doing it alone. It would be nice to have someone to share things with, but on the other hand, I don't have to accomodate anyone else, so if I want to stand in front of a picture or display case for ages I can and if theres something that dosen't interest me I can walk past it.