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How to deal with a bullying parent?

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My dad is a bully and I always seem to want him dead. He makes me very angry and he still likes to bully me. Anyone who does bully me makes me angry and I wish them hell. I bully my dad right back and my mom thinks I’m the one who starts it, but it’s not  me. I hope when he dies he’s in hell and that I don’t have to deal with him anymore. I’m not even going to his funeral. That’s how I feel about bullies. They deserve to be miserable. 

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  • They say the best way is to stand up to the bully but of doesn't sound like that's going to work for you. 

    I agree with Mariusz, cut ties and leave to a better place where you don't have to suffer this every day. You shouldn't have to live like this. You deserve to be happy. 

  • in reply to Selena
    Selena said:
    stand up to the bully

    it's a myth. I did when I was 15y.o. I broke a broom on his head. He was lying on a floor, completely drunk and laughing in my face. I felt like my soul got dirty after it, I was terryfied i'll be like him if I continue that path. So what I did not get beaten on daily basis anymore if it meant that my mom and sisters did get more of it.

    Question is: Are you bothered if you'll turn into bully yourself or no? Have you got younger sibilings and there is nobody else but you between them and a bully?

  • in reply to Mariusz

    I had similar thoughts when I thought of standing up to my school bullies. You don't want to become the bully because then you're as bad as she is. Didn't want to go down that path so kept my head down and endured it. Since school ended and I'm away from that I haven't been bullied.

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