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Nobody is listening

Stephen

Dude I feel so trapped it’s unbelievable.. I have nobody but a partner who makes me wish I was dead. I’ve just broken my hand wrist punching a wall because my 6yr old daughter told me she hates me. 
im not a violent guy, but I love a good wall punch, it’s soothing.. I’m not well.   Singing ‘everybody hates me ste’ 

  • Life is difficult, and everyone struggles. For those like us, things can escalate quickly, and we don’t know we’re in trouble until we’re knee deep in turmoil.

    Please speak to your GP for advice. They should be able to point you in the direction of support services, including CBT which ‘might’ help you view your problems differently, so you can process them ‘easier’. It’s not helpful for everything, but it can be a useful tool.

    Lastly, please know that your daughter didn’t mean what she said. They blurt out things all the time in frustration or anger. Please don’t take it seriously. You and her mother are her world at this age.

  • 7 kids, wow that must take its toll, no wonder your feeling so overwhelmed! 

    Sending you positive vibes!!

  • seems like a bad situation your are in, i punch walls too as a relief from being overhwelmed with negative emotions but i got told this is self harm and a negative way of dealing with my emotions, its so hard to emotional regulate in the correct way when we cant do it naturally, i started making journal and trying to name all the emotions i think i feel, do you just not get along with your partner and how come your daughter tells you she hates you?

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    7 kids would be enough to drive most men potty. Have you spoken to your GP about stress / depression / anxiety?

  • I'm so sorry your feeling this way and struggling at the moment. It sounds really hard for you. 

    If you need to shout and scream then you go ahead. Remember to be kind to yourself. And try to keep upbeat. If you need to talk, I am here for you Slight smile

  • I called the police 1 week ago.. they went nuts at me ‘we are not mediators’ 

    housing.. a 13yr old £800 dept is more important than my life and my 7kids futures. 

    I have absolutely nobody. Not even a mum