Mother of new diagnosed son

My 16 year boy has been very lonely and isolated since starting college. He has a twin brother who has been his partner in crime since they were born. Now his brother is at college in a different class. He has not made any friends and is getting increasing depressed, which lead into epic meltdowns. I desperately want to help him. Anyone in the same situation, or have any tips?

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  • I am an 18-year-old relatively recently diagnosed autistic person. I found making friends in school extremely difficult. I have found that being around other autistic people/neurodivergent people general makes it a lot easier to make friends.

    Is there any groups for autistic teenagers in your area? Or an explorer scout unit? (I found that a lot of scouts are neurodivergent when I went).

    I also know a lot of autistic people that found online friends are easier to connect with. Has he tried anything like that on discord servers etc.?

  • Hi, we have talked about this with him. I'm sure he will at some point. He is still in a bit of denial. He has been referred to CAMHS 5 times since early childhood, and everything they said it was our parenting, even though his twin brother was perfectly fine. I've had a look, and I think it would be great for him to speak to people his age with the same diagnosis. I'm trying to encourage him to dip his toes in  x  

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  • Hi, we have talked about this with him. I'm sure he will at some point. He is still in a bit of denial. He has been referred to CAMHS 5 times since early childhood, and everything they said it was our parenting, even though his twin brother was perfectly fine. I've had a look, and I think it would be great for him to speak to people his age with the same diagnosis. I'm trying to encourage him to dip his toes in  x  

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