Published on 12, July, 2020
Hi I am Mark,
I am 55 years old, I had an ASD assessment in March 2021. At the end of the assessment, I was diagnosed with autism (HFA).
Hi, I was diagnosed in February at 59 years of age, so you're not alone. There is no 'correct way' of being autistic, everyone is different and everyone's traits and experience of being autistic will be unique. There are commonalities between autistic people, obviously, otherwise we would not have the diagnosis. For example I have never flapped my hands or rocked, not even as a child, though many autistics find these stims are important to them. I can and do make eye-contact, though it is conscious and a learned behaviour, and do not find it particularly difficult or overwhelming. So, don't feel that you don't fit in if your traits are not typical.
Thanks Plastic,
Its just the self questioning and wondering if the feelings of confusion are an experience tha everyone goes through?
Hiya Mark
Welcome aboard - I too am a 55 year-old HFA/aspie - diagnosed over 10 years ago after a life of not quite fitting in.
A lot of the published material is written by 'normal' people observing behaviours and them then trying to guess what's really going on for us. Not always accurately.
Is there anything specific I can help you with? I'm ok doing short bites if it helps you to process.
Hi Welcome to this Forum
any questions just ask.
go on youtube thats where i learnt alot very quickly about adults with autism.
also Tedx is very good
Thank You
Hi Mark. I am 49 years old and I have autism. I was diagnosed only recently, though I had always known that I am different. I am not a great reader but have immersed myself a bit since my diagnosis. But I think the important thing is to give yourself space and time. If you want any book ideas, here's a link to another discussion.
https://community.autism.org.uk/f/adults-on-the-autistic-spectrum/21033/book-podcast-recommendations
So, welcome to the forum. What you are feeling and thinking about yourself is something that so many of us have gone through too, or in my case, still going through. I'm not a long poster, as I don't have the best concentration span or many "words in my word bag" but welcome and take care of yourself.