Hi
I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years and all has been well. We moved in together a year ago and as our relationship progresses it is becoming a little harder.
My boyfriend is confident and very sociable so I often forget he thinks differently about things and doesn't understand social expectations and rules.
We're at the point of discussing where we are going with our relationship as he admits he is very selfish and likes going out to see friends, gigs , holidays so I often feel he is so busy for us. He can't say if he wants marriage or kids because he can't see his life changing. He often stays at womens houses as he gets on better with them and although I know he would never do anything it plays against what I feel is a relationship expectation that it is not appropriate to be staying out at another women's house when you're in a committed relationship.
I'm a bit lost on what to do to help the situation without feeling like I'm doing everything he wants to do. I love him and don't want us to split up so any advice would be much appreciated.