I am not sure how to tackle a (stressful to me) habit my GP Practice has developed (despite me requesting them not to do so): of a GP just phoning me when they think of it - without giving me prior warning - and when I am not awaiting or expecting a phonecall - and I don't know what they want to discuss when I answer my phone.
The other anxiety-inducing permutation: they book a phonecall to me (without expecting one, I get a text message with no subject context) with the name of one of a variety of GPs with whom I have never had prior contact (I have been been a Patient there for decades, my assigned GP is still in the Practice and I have recently had a text message confirming that person is still my GP).
That means: I don't know why the phonecall has been booked (I had not requested an appointment and no follow-up was outstanding as known to me), why a random GP has been scheduled, how to prepare for the phonecall and I have to then wait until open hours to submit an online admin triage request - saying I think the appointment may have been scheduled in error ...only to then find out a) they expected to schedule a new-to-me GP, in 10 minutes by phone, to follow up with me about a chronic situation (quite ridiculous) - without even telling me in advance what the person would expect me to discuss with them on the phonecall and as I have asked what it is about - they are now going to consult with yet another GP (not mine) and get back to me!
When I look on the NHS app it just says "any GP" with no clue about context.
Both varieties of unexpected phonecall seem to tend to occur around 5 pm or 6 pm (by which time I am trying to recover from my day and sort out the evening meal etc.). Outcome: I lose at least the evening to - by then - being badly stressed and lose all appetite for bothering to cook / eat my meal.
The GP and Practice know about my Autism - I have previously explained to them, in writing, that an unexpected phonecall is my least successful communication mode - but you couldn't tell so from their ongoing behaviour.
Their latest phonecall salvo is particularly crassly timed - as it is two days before a super-important secondary care appointment about which I am particularly anxious (of which they are aware) ... helpful ...not.
It seems to me: they are tick-boxing their commissioning, while disregarding that I am a neurodivergent human ...rather than a robot.
Does everyone's find their GP Practice operates this way now?
Has anyone had any success convincing them not to do this sort of thing (ideas of further strategy or tactics to try?).
I had even requested a referral to our local reasonable adjustments team (only to be informed there was "no need"). Well I did try to do the right thing!
Thank you.