Finding it very hard to deal with living in supported living

Wolf 7 days ago

Finding it very hard dealing with certain staff when i tell them how i feel.

2 e.gs

1st

When i told a staff member about 2 austic traits

1. don't like change

2. likes structure

98% find that if them to things break it upsets them

2.e.g

They think i ignore them but I'm getting more disconnected with them and with the outside world.

Staff again said don't think everything you do is down autism . there suppose to be trained ?

Also they don't wear uniform and a mental health nurse recently said to me you feel safe when you see my uniform or any other uniform i said yes. Cause i recently had a very bad experience with a support worker wearing everyday crap . They said it upsets people and they would get us targeted more if they were to wear uniform. But i did some research and found this.

Autistic adults may find people in uniform comforting due to the predictability and familiarity they offer, which can reduce anxiety and promote a sense of order and safety.

Here's a more detailed explanation:

Predictability and Routine:

Uniforms represent a clear role and authority, which can be comforting for autistic individuals who often have a strong preference for routine and structure.

Reduced Social Complexity:

The uniform can simplify social interactions, making it easier to understand the person's role and expectations, which can be beneficial for autistic people who may struggle with social cues and complex social dynamics.

Sense of Order and Safety:

Uniforms can signal a sense of order and authority, which can be reassuring for autistic individuals who may experience anxiety or overwhelm in unpredictable situations.

Sensory Sensitivities:

Some autistic individuals may have sensory sensitivities that are triggered by clothing, and uniforms can be a source of comfort due to their simple design and consistent texture.

Familiarity and Comfort:

Uniforms can represent a sense of familiarity and comfort, as they are often associated with specific roles and professions, which can be comforting for autistic people who may have a strong preference for familiarity.