What are the main reasons for rejection from your attempts to attract women? Have any told you directly or are you using your own guesswork on the reasons?
Finding out what the reasons for rejection are will highlight the areas you will need to modify if you want to continue to persue this group.
An alternative approach is to accept your weirdness and try to find girls who like this sort of thing - these are much less common however so you need to find out where they go, what they do and what their interests are to find them.
We can dissect the reasons here if you like and help you formulate a strategy to either become more acceptable to them or search for the much smaller group who may accept you for who you are.
It won't be easy but if it is really what you want then I'm sure the community here will help you with some ideas.
The first part if painful - admitting your failings so far and understanding them.
