Hi all :-)
I'm two years into being ASD type 1 diagnosed and 60 years old. I am slowly getting to understand what that means and the implications of it.
I am now wondering just how much autistic people can change in the expression of core features that define the condition. Is it worth the effort to try or should one instead work on being "authentic" to one's true autistic self?
I suspect the reality will be a bit of both and finding one right answer might be impossible for now, nonetheless...
I've started a bit of analysis on this so far I've got this:
Just be your authentic autistic self – let your autism be free?
Advantages – less hard work cognitively, socially aligns oneself to other autistic people, be “true to yourself” and recognise self better has it's own reward
Disadvantages – problems with survival and thriving in neurotypical world
Potentially missing out on experiences and insights that would enhance and make life more meaningful
Change by adapting Work hard and smart at learning to understand it – perhaps get the brain and behaviour to both consciously or subconsciously do things to “fit in” to more neurotypical society and life.
Advantages less social conflict and increased potential for social “advancement”
Disadvantages This is in itself potentially “masking” behaviour so the risk of “losing oneself” might be higher
Relies upon “knowing oneself” and recognising other things that might be impossible for autistic people so really a waste of time and effort...
I would like to ask what is the knowledge and experience of other members in the community please - can you help with this analysis?