Published on 12, July, 2020
Let's say I know this woman who works at a local supermarket, she smiled at me and said she liked my coat. I believe that's flirting, correct? How do I ask her out on a date?
Roswell said:I believe that's flirting,
I found that just asking (while wearing a cheeky grin) "are you flirting with me?" is a great way - anything other than a NO means she probably was so you can just follow up "thank goodness, I was going to feel a bit daft asking you out otherwise." and let her lead the conversation from there.
If she does say "NO" to the flirting question then a good follow up would be "shot down in flames again. Still, with someone as amazing as you I couldn't help but ask".
The compliment should defuse the situation from there.
That would be my approach.
Smooth...
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