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Are we all destined to be single forever?

Ruth

Another depressing question I suppose. I'm just wondering if there are other humans (robots) like me out there.

  •  Personally I never thought I would find anyone. I had an on off relationship of sorts with a goth girl from High School as a teen. I briefly tried a relationship with a mature female which never worked due to distance and me being younger. I also sort of went with another female who didn't particularly like me and was sort of using me to annoy another girl who said she did. They were relationships by my standards. Years later I reconnected with the goth girl and we got married and have 3 kids and a baby on the way. So it can happen.

  • I'm too socially redarded to do relationships... i'd rather do a one night stand, so i never have to see them again. Or fwb. That's the perfect setup. I'm not built for emotional intimacy and all that jive

  • in reply to TheCatWoman

    From my experience I think many of my relationship issues are down to not being able to define myself. I play the role until I get scared or just bored when the initial excitement just fades.

    I mask constantly which shows a different facet that I think they will like.

  • in reply to Hergé

    I'm a bit like Herge, people seem to find me attractive, I don't know why. My relationships rarely last though, I honestly don't think I'm cut out for them. I came to this conclusion after realising the common component in my many failed relationships is me, this isn't a negative, but a positive, as it allowed me to ask myself what I really want and need from a relationhip and why I don't get it. Basically I choose emotionaly unavailable men, because I don't want to be available all the time, the trouble is emotionally unavailable men want me to be availalbe all the time. Not only that I get bored in relationships really quickly.

  • I feel sad that kids today associate with Robots better than Humans.

    Granted, I used my phone quite a bit. But I still have human contact. It's the goal of technology to serve Mankind, not the other way round.

  • I've always had a blind side for relationships. The relationships I've had and have have always being initiated by others. I don't think I'm attractive or interesting but obviously others must think differently . If a relationship can happen to me it can happen to others. 

  • Well, I've met someone,  but I'm sceptical about keeping it going 

  • Define "robot".....and then I can have a stab at trying to answer your questions (which appear twofold as itemised below, but presumably are linked by implication in your OP) for whatever my opinion might be worth to you.

    a) are we all destined to be single forever

    b) are other humans (robots) like me out there.