Published on 12, July, 2020
well... have you had relationships or partners?often bpd is more centered around relationships... if you had relationship and had troubles, then yes its likely bpd still stands correct.... also though it does contradict asd.... as often people with asd dont get relationships.... therefore it all hinges on relationships and how you handled them... ofcourse with bpd you may not even realise you was the problem in the relationship so its hard to diagnose that way as a person with bpd wouldnt see themselves as the problem and would likely not tell the full story
I just read through the guide - it is really good and so much better than what they had before. It cannot cover every variant of autistic traits but it does seem to cover the most common ones and those that are practical to observe and/or handle.
I doubt many police will read it and take in much info as there is so much in it. The police are so used to being incredibly sceptical about the "perps" when they grab them that they will think that they are faking it most of the time so won't use the recommended approach.
This is an issue with the police and I doubt it will change unfortunately as they always look after their own, even for internal enquiries.
Hats off to NAS for creating this.
Randomly started reading https://s3.chorus-mk.thirdlight.com/file/1573224908/63296026948/width=-1/height=-1/format=-1/fit=scale/t=446220/e=never/k=420e7a4a/NAS_Police_Guide_2020_17092020.pdf (the guide for police from the National Autistic Society), and it feels just like when I first watched this for the first time https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iraGmA7-9FA
It is far too close to home for comfort and too relatable to past life experiences. How can I feel so intensely ambivalent (in the true dictionary definition of the word) to so many things at once?
1970sCarbonUnit said:I am, however, sceptical of the diagnosis because I believe I may have unconsciously led the diagnosis towards a specific conclusion as a result of my BPD, despite my ASD diagnosis claiming that my BPD diagnosis may well have been a misdiagnosis.
There are a lot of shared traits between Bipolar and Autism so I would recommend looking at the graphic below and seeing if you have a reasonable number that are outside of the shared area - this would indicate you are both (called co-morbidity).
1970sCarbonUnit said:What's next? Do I shell out for another private assessment and just make sure I lay everything out again?
Unless you need the diagnisis for a specific reason then I wouldn't bother - just take a free online test ( eg https://www.mind-diagnostics.org/bipolar_disorder-test ) and if you meet the criteria then you know you are most probably with both.
Stong swings in mood, serious depression or manic episodes are likely to need medication so speak to your GP if this is the case and I think this would merit a diagnosis being booked.
Take the time to read up on your traits and ways to manage them. Take control of them as best you can and just live your life to the fullest.
1970sCarbonUnit said:the NHS will refuse to recognise any private assessment?
If you have a private diagnosis then present them with a copy to add to your medical records and you will be recognised with the condition of the diagnosis.
If you need them to get a private diagnosis then ask the the Right To Choose and they will need to book one for you. It may not apply if you live outside of England however. This is likely to take a fraction of the time although I have heard the wait times are getting a lot longer.
OMG now I'm noticing the typos in my post and I don't see a way to correct them. AGH!