Horrible World

Not my current neighbours no, but in my old place yes! Problem behaviour from each of the three other flats in my block of four. The most persistently problematic though was from a guy who was also autistic (I was not at that stage diagnosed and have fewer obvious tells, thanks to exhausting levels of compulsive masking) and who’s behaviour  was therefore difficult to moderate with a good balance between assertiveness and sensitivity. I’m so glad to have quiet low key neighbours now 

Not my current neighbours no, but in my old place yes! Problem behaviour from each of the three other flats in my block of four. The most persistently problematic though was from a guy who was also autistic (I was not at that stage diagnosed and have fewer obvious tells, thanks to exhausting levels of compulsive masking) and who’s behaviour  was therefore difficult to moderate with a good balance between assertiveness and sensitivity. I’m so glad to have quiet low key neighbours now 

I was a similar 'Neighbour from Hell' back whenever I was in Dun Laoghaire; during placement year, twenty-five years ago.

I learned the hard way, as we all do.

pleased for you yes I am less obvious too but am sensitive to light the environment and noise.I would say my classic masking is in a business setting can put on a suit and sell but when in leisure and dealing with everyday life struggle