A dating relationship

^^ this. Well said

Welcome to the community. I think the best way for you to meet people will be to introduce yourself here,, give your profile a name, a pic and start interacting on the forum discussions so people can get to know you properly.

That's the best way forward for you to not only meet a potential partner but also maybe make some friends too. I was so nervous about joining in and posting at first but actually this is one of my favourite places to be now and I feel like I've made a lot of friends already.

I hope you enjoy being here and I look forward to seeing you around the forum.

Hi Oliver, as I remember in the rules, it’s better to not give your real names, if it’s your real name. It’s just better for our own security to not get identified by personal details. 

1. This Community forum is public, so do not post personal or identifying details. This includes, but is not limited to, full names, addresses, contact details, social media, or photographs of yourself.  
2. Profile pictures/avatars and usernames should not use full names or images of real people. They should not include the NAS logo or include the word ‘Mod’ as this profile is used by the moderation team. If your profile does not comply with this rule, you may be contacted by our moderation team to request an amendment or your profile or avatar may be reset.   

welcome to the community and hope you enjoy. 

Hi Oliver

You have to get to know someone before you can have a dating relationship. I was lucky enough to meet my partner when we were young, in the "real world" (no internet then) and we "clicked" because although we didn't know it at the time, we're both ND. It still took a long time to get to know each other well.

As you're posting on here I take it you're on the spectrum and looking for a partner who also is. These days the internet can help us connect with others, but they are often living far away from us, which makes it difficult to turn an online friendship into a real life relationship, but it's not impossible.

These ideas might help:

Change your user name from NAS93334 to a nickname, so people can recognise you when you post.

Put some information about yourself in your profile

Read the profiles of others on the forum

Engage in discussions on the forum.

When you feel you have a lot in common with someone, request to "friend" them. (Dunno how this works, but I'm an old woman - you'll probably be able to work it out, or ask others if you can't) Then you can see if anything develops from there.

Hi I Sperg

Ha, ha, ha, as a "wimmin" you've highly amused me.

I never expected boys to "sell" themselves, but you are correct that us wimmin will be curious as to what someone is all about.

Welcome to this place.

I think it would be a better approach for you to get to know individuals on this forum as friends first.

It's different for girls than for guys.

For a young guy looking for a girl, female and available is usually enough, but them wimmins will do things like look at your profile and see what Oliver D actually is all about...  

Even the "easy ones" wnat to know if you have any of the "three sixes"... (Height in feet, number of zeros in yrou anual paycheck, length in inches).

You want a real live girl? Ya gots to work at it, or at least sell yourself a bit, even if you have all the good points.