Published on 12, July, 2020
I have huge problems with tech, I almost gave up joining here as I kept running into problems about codes and passwords. I can use basic email and just about cope with some shopping, like the big forresty place, but some I find overwhelming. I don't know how to use a smart phone I can just about cope with a stupid one, but not well. Everyone seems to think that everyone else is comfortable with tech and that 'it's intuitive', who's intuition are they using? I can't seem to find any help and everyone seems to think more tech is the answer. I'm starting to get very excluded from the world as everything moves towards smart phones, mobile banking, do they really want me to crash the worlds entire banking system? That's the other thing with tech, I go near it, it goes wrong, the list of things I've crashed gets ever longer, sometimes I only have to stand next to something for it to stop working. I'm so fed up with stupid answers when I try and explain my problems, from people talking loudly and slowly to me, (my response was I'm autistic not deaf or stupid), or laughing, getting angry, trying to start me off at a place well above my understanding, like 'you have to decide if you want Apple or Android?' Most often they just sort of drift away, before I sprout a second head or something. One of my learning difficulties is that some bits of information go straight to long term memory storage without ever passing through short term memory storage, I'm told that without spending time in short term storage, I have no synaptic links created, so I can't retrieve information. For example I know I've done C&P dozens of times, but I can't remember how to do it, everytime is like the first, of course it dosen't help when I lose stuff, like an essay or something. Tech causes me more meltdowns than almost anything else
Thing is though, when buying a SailRail ticket from Manchester to Dublin online from TfW’s website, they insist on a whole bunch of paper tickets rather than a QR code sent to your phone even if purchased via the TfW app - otherwise its a code sent via email that you have to enter into the ticket machine at Manchester Piccadilly with the same debit card your used to buy the tickets in the first place and the printed tickets still come with the old BR logo, which still gets strange looks at the Irish Ferries check-in desk at Holyhead for the ferry to Dublin - it’s even worse at Irish Rail if buying SailRail tickets at Dublin Connolly or at Irish Ferries in Dublin Port, as these are all hand-written, even in the post-Covid era
At age 53 myself, I’m not too bad with tech, as I’d embraced much of it in my teens in the 1980’s despite my grandparents generation being totally against the internet and mobile phones (where I’ve discovered that they were correct in their opposition) and we now have a situation where it is now in effect mandatory to have all of these devices to exist in society, along with the censorship that crept in later on, while we have been rendered totally reliant on all of these, a huge problem in rural areas - I do agree that in the last 40 years it has gone way too far, even if it is about “convenience” - so many big companies and state bodies have moved everything online to do even the smallest things, as we discovered during Covid lockdowns - given the chance, I’d probably ditch it all, but it’s not practical to do so
BIG lol !
I can offer some practical advice though
Focus on the basics of interacting with the computer, learn its languages and conventions, and the tasks that you want to do with it will be so much easier later on.
I think you can summit up by saying that technology was designed to make our lives easier not simpler.
driving a car it’s complicated you have to learn to coordinate the steering wheel pedals the indicator to pay attention to the mirrors you need to learn the gears. Your brain has to multitask your body checking a lot of different things and making a lot of different decisions and manipulating a lot of different controls all at the same time. It’s far more complicated than walking which only requires you to coordinate your centre of mass and your legs and not bump into things.
however driving from John O’Groats to lands end is a hell of a lot easier than walking from John O’Groats to lands end. Technology makes our lives easier but the price is we have to become more complicated.
I am young enough to have a grown-up with computers. I had exposure to the BBC micro / commodore before my teens and basic programming. I spent my teens using computers with GUIs like the McIntosh. It’s really wrong to think about a smart phone as a phone. It’s a touchscreen personal computer that’s had a phone added. If you already knew how to operate a desktop computer it’s not that big a leap. If you already knew how to operate an old-fashioned dos or Other text based computer using a modern PC isn’t that big a jump Either.
Computer literacy is as important as English literacy, it’s also sometimes for some people almost as hard as learning a new language. I would approach using your smart phone as being like learning a new language. You don’t expect to just pick it up as an adult you need to immerse yourself in it and be shown by people who know what they’re doing.
The plus side is there is a lot of overlap between these different computer systems. if you learn how to use one you have drastically reduced the effort you need to put in to learn another.
lol!!
Yes I've always got Loose Women on in the background while I'm running around the house with the hoover in one hand and my feather duster in the other. I need something enlightening and inspiring to take my mind off the drudgery !!
That would be my preference too, but women ALWAYS need a TV set... (taht's oen of teh major disadvantages of living with one, the idiot box is always on)
I used to keep one for visitor use only, and to be honest I didn't use it myself except for the occasional DVD. I begrudged it the electricty for a start...
or do what I did, and not have a tv at all. PC only and I don't watch broadcast tv or the streaming services.
Don't get a smart TV.
Unless you like "software updates" and half the thing not working after a few years as software is lapsed etc.
Get a dumb TV and the smart BOX of your choice.
EDIT: My G/F got a samsung snmart T.V. but as it gradually lost "smart" functionality (which wasn't great in the first place) we added a roku... Now the screen is going blotchy a new (secnd hand but of highest quality) set beckions, and it will work with the roku, so we still get all the smart stuff et alia.
One 'skill' that has greatly help me, is googling the tech questions. With practise, I learned the correct way to ask the question, the correct words to use, and then you get used to the sites with the good answers.
typically, it is "How do I <what you want to do> on <device or application>?"
So. "How do I replace the belt on a zanussi xyz123 washing machine?"
or. "how do log in to netflix on LG xyz123 TV?"
Keep it to only the words that are key to your question, as each word ou add will add additional results in the search.
Thanks Touay, I will, I want to get a smart tv and am completely confused, long gone are the days when you just went into a shop and got the one with the right screen size for your budget. I don't understand half the words they use individually let alone when put together. How on earth do I go about finding what I want and not getting ripped off by a sales assistant or buying something wrong online because I don't understand what I'm buying?
If you have any tech questions, I guess t wold be good to post them here. If you don't want to post publicly, feel free to message me. I am not going to promise I will always be quick to reply, but i will try! :-)
Oh I've tried finding classes, I've been bounced from pillar to post trying to find help, many organisations are in England, and don't opperate in Wales, or not Anglesey anyway. After about 2 months of phone calls, meetings and emails, two women came round my house with a lap top and showed me 2 phones I could buy from the supermarket down the road, then one told me I didn't really need any help as I could use email, that was it, that was all the help I could get.
Ohh I thought you said..
I have enquired on such matters with TM before and they said you can still pick up box office tix.
I remember as a kid, looking at those 'big' landrovers and thinking they would be hard to drive, but they are the easiest thing I have ever driven, even the 110. Nice flat sides, high seating position and big mirrors! lovely!
My Dad had a Proper Land Rover, too.
Sorry sister. And never worry.....I love a pedant ! It's how I learn and correct myself ! Thank you.
i do love a 'real' landrover.
LucyLandRover said:There is a reason I drive a 1976 land Rover