How adult is the adult section allowed to be?

In a world where by reason of our autism we are judged as being “wrong” by default in terms of everything we say, do, be and act, where we are deemed as “not understanding that we are wrong” perhaps it is a case of us having to prove that this is not the case, by presenting ourselves in such a way that shows us in a good light, showing ourselves as being capable of being intelligent, classy and polished? 

In a world where by reason of our autism we are judged as being “wrong” by default in terms of everything we say, do, be and act, where we are deemed as “not understanding that we are wrong” perhaps it is a case of us having to prove that this is not the case, by presenting ourselves in such a way that shows us in a good light, showing ourselves as being capable of being intelligent, classy and polished?